Im dating this man that i totally have a crush on for the past 2 years. When we are together he behaves like he is addicted to me all he wants to do is kiss me and give me hugs. He wants to meet me almost evryday. Although i wanna meet him everyday and spend time with him. But I don't wanna rush things. l like taking things slowly . All i want is some one to love me as a person. We haven't had sex yet.. He did ask for it but i turned him down cause i wasn't ready. I love everythig about this man .. his level of intelligence is what attracted me towards him he is also good looking and smart, we we usually have good conversations together. The only problem i face is he is not express about his feelings towards me..That keeps me worried. To be really honest I look after my appereance i go to the gym often and i get compliments all the the time. And that is what i worry about i don't wanna a guy to be around me just to take met o bed. I want someone who truly loves me. Am a crazy ?
2006-12-17 21:58:20 · 10 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why dont you ask him, if he's not shy about asking you to sleep with him you shouldn't be embarrased to ask if it will mean anything to him if you do eventually have sex! Good luck
2006-12-17 22:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by julia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sixth sense put you on guard towards your b/f do not ignore it because more than any words he talks to you its the body language you study from him that gives you the sixth sense. Therefore try to talk it out with him in a different way. like asking him what he thinks about marriage, his family composition, how many of them are married and settled etc, etc all these will get you to know more about him and based on that you can take a decision. All the best.
2006-12-17 22:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
NO! You're not crazy you're just thinking tooooooooo much!
It seems to me that this guy really loves you... (and sorry, but if you're already dating him for two years without sex and he's still there he must be in love with you!) Have you ever thought of the possibility that he always wants to kiss and hug you because he wants to comfort and encourage you for the 'next step'?
Or perhaps you mistrust you luck?
Do what you're heart's telling you to do...
If this guy is really the person you ever wanted and you truly love him then talk to him! That's always the best...
Good luck...
2006-12-17 22:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is only after sex, he will only come around for so long before getting tired of being shot down, so don't have sex with him until you have a better understanding of how he feels. Girls put out too soon and then wonder why the guy doesnt call back.....he got what he came for.
2006-12-17 22:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by aprilfools1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not crazy. It is perfectly right to think in your way as mentioned. You ought to try some tests on this guy. Some guys are really just going after for s** cos in one way you should be gorgeous in shape. So guy would like to try. Try asking him for some future plans like --- planning for getting a house, or something that would make a guy thing twice before they take advantage of. Cos this will make them cautious about not having to just have fun only --- there should have responsibility attached. I hope you can understand me. If he is serious into sharing his thoughts about future, then you can be assure that he is not only up for yr body. Good luck.
2006-12-17 22:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by dolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a crush on him but i dont think he feels the same for you, and he has not even expressed it.Look after yourself well and keep your heart in control. No dont go to bed with him Stop being crazy and you will surely get true love.
2006-12-17 22:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak with him and express your desire that he expresses his feelings for you. Love means two-way communications and communications is very important in any relationship be it boy-girl or parents-daughters. Take the lead before you regret it.
2006-12-17 22:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not! Why dont you ask him how he feels as if you have any worries then its best to get them out in the open rather than doing nothing and them worries to get worse for you.
2006-12-17 22:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by Luke B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would crazy to NOT more.
Any man can lay you, but can he express his true feelings?
Do you think that he would be around after he got the "goods"?
2006-12-17 22:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could relate to your story. I think, guys now wanna experience things sooner. It is a guy's nature.
But if a guy wanna spend time with you, then he must be probably inlove with you.
2006-12-17 22:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by preppy royalty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋