All the girls that I are attracted to me have some problem.... Either self harm or have eating disorder's..... Or they are just completely mad and nasty....
Dont get me wrong they are all stunners..... But it has taken me a while to realise that beauty isnt eveything....
2006-12-17 21:38:54 · 25 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel your pain my brother…
I also seem to have an amazing talent for finding “Pretty Hate Machines”
2006-12-17 21:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by psychoticlawnjockey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At the end of the day, no-one is perfect and everyone has a flaw of some sort. It is good that you have realised that beauty is far more than just skin deep, and that maybe you will now consider getting to know someone for thier personality and life style. However, like I said everyone has at least one flaw. I, for one have low self confidence, so I tend to ask my partner if I look ok and stuff. When someone suffers a traumatic life event, it can often take a toll on them and they surpress a flaw that will remain with them for some time. Time and patience will help give your partner the support and love they need to get over any barriers they may have. Relationships aren't easy, they take effort, but can blossom into life long, rewarding partnerships.
2006-12-18 06:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been their too mate- I owned a house with the ex but it was too much and I had to tell her to go. House was sold etc.
What was wrong with her? She was selfish, and disrespectful to me and my family. Never complimented me etc.
I think she just couldnt accept that a grown man of 24 also needs love, attention and respect back. I have tried dating sites since and I feel like i'm going to a f*ckin job interview with these girls! I took one to a gig in London it was so boring, I bought her train tickets there and back and lunch and dinner and the gig tickets were £60 for the pair making my day cost around £170. Now not that I particularly cared about the money, and I didn't think about it as I was spending it lol but when I dropped her off at her home at 1.45am in the morning she didn't even say a simple thank you or anything- then she went all funny when I thought kissing her on the cheek was a gentlemanly thing to do putting me on a downer and making me feel like poop! Made me feel like a rapist or sumthin! Some people are just so mean and self-centred its untrue. I think it's true love will find us all at some point, just gota wait and be patient. Most girls seem to think men are only after sex. blaaaaaarrrgh i could go on, but this is just poopness!
Peace to all the nice girls i'm sure ur out there sumwhere looking for ur orlando bloom's or whatever it is you do x
2006-12-18 05:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by wragster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it may have taken some time for you to realise it, but now you do, it may be an idea to get to know others that may not be as stunning as these girls with eating disorders etc... i may not be a stunner but hey, my boyfriend thinks so, but the thing is hes not just after me for my body and i know it!
You would be better to try and get to know a girl, properly before judging them on their looks as you may find those that are comfortable with the way they look are the ones to go for!
2006-12-18 05:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah well good luck!!! Have you thought that all that matters is looks?????!!! It makes me sick! First of all, there are great girls there, but most of them are all ready taken and if not you wont meet them in clubs or such! Personally i HATE clubs and drugs and being too skinny!! Everybody got some problems , even you my friend! Nobodys perfect, if thats what you want then You will be alone for tha rest of your life!
By the way i could say the same thing about men, do you think women find most of them normal, NOPE!!!
2006-12-18 05:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kittykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times have I asked the same question about guys?
Maybe the fault is in me (and obviously in you as well). There are so many people in the world that statistically it's impossible that none is similar in madness and nastiness as me. So statistically I don't believe that all guys are crazy junkies but if I were to believe my experience - well, then they are.
Sorry that I don't have a proper answer to the question, I just wanted to point out that girls often have the same problem.
Good luck. :)
2006-12-18 05:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true beauty isnt everything, but you must also realise that no-one is perfesct and if you love someone you will help them overcome their problems and stick with them no matter what. I have a gf and she wanted to know when we first started goin out i like her as she fe;lt she wasnt perfect, but as i said to her, i'm not perfect, i know it so how can i criticise you on what you feel to not be perect.
Remember, if you love them nothing else will matter, i hope you find love and, good luck and a merry hristmas
2006-12-18 05:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think guys are the same - mad and nasty; unpredictable moods, etc. everyone has some problem. welcome to the real world. but sometimes girls are like that for a reason- are you paying her enough attention and getting to really know her; not just her "looks"? and can you really accept her for her or are you just shallow and cowardly? maybe she's been hurt in the past and is now on guard? there are a lot of factors to consider so don't just write girls off just 'cause they have "some problem".
2006-12-18 05:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by Pyro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First: there is no such thing as normal in either males or females.
Second: Judge someone by their looks and yes you are going to get personality disorders.
Third: Congratulations mate you're growing up!
2006-12-18 05:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by selchiequeen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finding someone can be real hard, i mean real hard, and to keep finding people who are just nasty makes i even harder doesn't it? but just keep trying, ther is someone out there for everyone, sure some people may find the love first go, first relationship what have you, doesn't mean that they haven't lived, it just means they are the lucky ones, its true beauty isn't everything, its whats on the inside that matters, you shouldn't be looking for your women because of their looks, you should be looking for you women because of who they are, not all women are pycho's, sure they have there moments but don't we all? i have a bf and he's fantastic, it took me a couple of goes to find him but i did, and when we first started going out, he asked me why do i think he's special and why do i love him, and i said, its because i love you because of you, you are who you are, and you are who i love, i didn't once ever care about his appearance, i still don't because i love who he his, not who he looks like do you understand what i mean, my advise to you is to keep looking, have hope, and look at who they are not what they look like, you'll find someone one day, it jsut might take a lil more goes than anyone else, good like, hey you could always ask santa for a good girl lol :D merry christmas
2006-12-19 05:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid it is a sign how ower society is developing we want to be the slimmest most beautiful, have what ever we wont making us selfish, parents today put their children on pedestals and that is where they wont to stay.
GOD HELP US
2006-12-18 05:59:46 · answer #11 · answered by D D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋