well we have been together for 3 years but he has "girl " friends he talks to he says there nothing more cause the live out of state but they send messages sayin i miss u n love u should i be worried since they live far away or is it still wrong
2006-12-17 21:28:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He should care that this makes you uncomfortable. Do you do this to him?
2006-12-17 21:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by itaintnojunk.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a couple really good friends that are girls,....
I love one like a sister,... i miss her,...
if i'm in a relationship,.. i simply am honest about who my friends are,. and how I know them and such....
if its legitimate friendship,. you have nothing to worry about,...
if its something more,... you need to be worried,..
how can you tell,... get some backround info on the past relationship,... unless he's cybering with these girls or something,... no big deal really,...
i mean,. whats next,. tell him who he can and can't talk to? what if he did that to you? people on here are saying that its wrong,. funny thing is,. if you try to tell a girl who to talk to or that you don't think a guy is a good guy thats one of her friends or whatever,. she shits frisbees and throws a fit about it. The door swings both ways ladies... this is afterall the age of equality right?
2006-12-17 21:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's known them long before he met you, there's probably a bond there that'll be hard to break between friendships. Let him know you are uncomfortable about this, but at the same time understand. Has he made attempts to let you talk to his 'girl' friends when they call?Joining his circle of friends can ease some tension a bit.
2006-12-17 21:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by yummybubbles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you should worry. I'm a guy, and I have several female friends, one of which is married, and another in a relationship. I often call them "babe" and I'm very expressive of my affection, but I have no intentions whatsoever of ruining the relationships they have, nor are my friends' significant others worried about me, and I'm not the least bit trying to flirt with them. I think you should relax. You'll lose your man if you confront him over these little things.
2006-12-17 21:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's wrong if they are saying things like I love you and miss you like they are more than friends.
I would voice my concerns over this?
Have you met these "girlfriends"? If not, then tell him you want to or at least talk to them to get to know them so you can be mutual friends. If he protests then something is definitely up.
Do they even know about you?
2006-12-17 21:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its still wrong no mater how far away they are, he has you know and should of forgot about them from that date foward, give him a chance if you want, but if he doesnt stop talkin to them then leave him
2006-12-17 21:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by kydd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should care about him, like all the other people! If you are not in the mood in listening to him,then don't!
2006-12-17 21:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by Roubini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew yes, you should tell him that that is so not cool, and if he doesnt care about your feelings about it, kiss him good bye. he sound so not worth it.
2006-12-17 21:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by bluestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about trust. if you trust him then im sure you have nothing to worry about it..but the fact that your thinking about it shows that you might not. maybe you should talk to him about it.. tell him that its bothering you.
2006-12-17 21:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by morgan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldn't have send her the masaages.....he doesn't respect u as her gf......tell him off.....since he says it's nothing, then he should better stop it right now!! good luck!!!
2006-12-17 21:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋