How can a girl bring the guy closer in their relationship?What must a girl do to know what's on his mind and heart ?How she can encourage the guy to be open(to show his feelings) in their relationship?
2006-12-17 21:23:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all your great answers. I raised this question coz the guy I have been for almost 10 mos, are getting away with me after talking about his life,my life and our experiences in life.By the way,I met this guy only online.We just see only at the webcam.Im the only one now communicating with him.But I feel he is waiting me everytime I sign in.After I type sweet words,he just sign out.After one month of doing this,he just only type the word "Mi amor".I dont know if he is testing me, thinking about before he enter into a relationship,might thinking if he will be happy with me,what do you think? I really love this guy.The love I felt in him I think the real love. I never based my love in his outlook or what he has in his life but what i see and feel in his heart.The desire to change his life for good.
2006-12-18 20:25:50 · update #1
Since this is what happening now, what shall I do? Do I still keeping in touch with him even he does not reply thru text,chat or email?Please help me what is the best thing to do? Tell me how to reverse him in a effective way?
2006-12-18 20:57:37 · update #2
there's no shortcut...there never is a shortcut to anythin...
u ask why... i guess it's that long process that's gonna build ur relationship.. i'll only say, spend time with him.. time builds trust, trust brings honesty, n honesty will help him reveal to u his deepest thoughts.. every guy is unique n think differently.. if u generalize us, we might be offended, jus like when we generalize women..
if u wanna know shortcuts, well:
1.postin a question here might get u fast answers
2.read relationship books..theyre lotsof em
3.ask good adults who've 'been that, done that'.. gray dogs are usually wiser than adults who are still thinkin like us...n are stuck with the same level as us..
other than that, time, as precious as it is, is a way to a good man's heart..
2006-12-17 21:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are completely clueless. Men want 2 things. Are you ready? It's very simple, and it's very easy to give to them. They will be happy and grateful for the rest of their lives if they get these 2 things from you. It's:
1. Sex
2. Food
We do not care about feelings or having a closer relationship. We do not care about anything other than sex and food. You asked "what's on his mind and heart?" The answer is, in case you missed it the first time, 1. Sex, and 2. Food.
Got it? How many times do I have to repeat myself?!?!?! If you want to bring a guy closer to you in a relationship, give him more sex and more food. Try it. It works.
2006-12-18 05:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just be open to him and hope that he will be open to you, thats what i think. Just show him you care, and he would have no reason not to tell you how he feels, i think this will work in bringin you closer together, i'm a guy, i know thse things. Good luck and merry christmas
2006-12-18 05:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep. reverse psychology usually works, it did for me!!! give it a go. if that doesnt work, be straight with him and say that you want to know these things as you think it will bring the two of you closer!
2006-12-18 05:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well sometimes, men can be like a brick wall, lol (no offence) they just can't seem to get there emotions out, so i suggest you sit down with him, and show him yours, "i'll show you mine if you show me yours" you get it? he wouldn't have any reason not to show you his now would he? just be honest, nothing works better in a relatioship then honesty, lay everything down on the table and work through it, good luck!
2006-12-19 05:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't go out with a guy if he can't be open with you. to be closer, why not just tell him?
2006-12-18 05:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by Pyro 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you tryy and be yourself but remember when you are with hima lone hold his hand
2006-12-18 05:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sankiny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
use reversed psychology!!!
2006-12-18 05:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by INC0GNIT0 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋