You were in a friend with benefits relationship with a girl after 1 week of knowing her. She seemed to really dig you after 3 weeks. She asked you out on the forth week but you denied her. She started acting funny around you but you insist that it was because she was playing mind games with you. After three months of knowing her she curses you out on the phone telling you that she got tired of you talking about your ex girl inappropriately, she didn't like the sex, and she got tired of talking to you. 2years later she apologizes to you and tells you that she didn't mean a word and the reason she said that was because she really liked you but it seemed that you were more into your ex. You denied her of being friends. Now, 4 years later, you see that she is a well known artist, fashion artist, and really good music artist. She has her own web page and you have an opportunity to talk to her. Would you?
2006-12-17 21:11:30 · 8 answers · asked by tika ukie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you wanting to contact her now because she has all those things, or because you really want to talk to her? And if she wanted to talk to you and didn't have those things, would you?
2006-12-17 21:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by emtb9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to me it was obvious she liked you in the first instance but you were not into her for anything but sex. You didnt respect her by talking about your ex all the time so of course she felt hurt and reacted badly by saying what she did. But she did it out of hurt. Then when she finally did do the mature thing and tell you what happened you fobbed her off, so why now that she has made something of herself do you want to talk to her? regrets?
I think that if you are going to talk to her than it should be an apology for the way you treated her two years ago. Would you have even wanted to talk to her had she not become well known?????
2006-12-18 05:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just reminded me of a girl that a fell in love with for the first time. The time gaps and other things about her are similar as of mine. Any way I think that she may still like you. So use your opportunity to talk to her, If you have still feelings to her. Things may change.
Good Luck!!
2006-12-18 05:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u didnt want her then, is it fair to want to get in touch with her now just because she is "famous"? thats really shallow on your behalf.
she has most likely moved on, and you are not a part of her life anymore, so accept that, and respect that. if you do wish to contact her, know that it would only be as friends most likely.
work out what you want from het and why you want to contact her...some books are better left un-opened.
2006-12-18 06:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like her, then go for her.....but she might think that u only go for her because of her fame n' talent......so, show your sincerity......n' also, it's been a long time n' she might get over u already....so , don't expect too much from this girl n' be prepared....good luck!!
2006-12-18 05:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would get processional counseling
2006-12-18 05:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by shark_or_gup 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tempermental b*itch isnt she o well dump her
2006-12-18 05:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, if you did you would be a gold digger,,,USER
2006-12-18 05:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋