The guy I've been seeing had plans to go on a week-long vacation with his friends before we got back together.
His bf is female & she also went.
We had been seeing each other like 1-1.5 weeks before he left and we spent alot of time together.
When he got home, he didn't invite me over (like he usually does) and since he's been back, we spent just a few mins on the phone.
He's leaving for work, today or tomorrow.
Am I overreacting or might he have lost interest suddenly?
Might have him and his bf got ***really*** close on vacation (they were prolly drunk most of the time).
Might he just need some space and we'll see each other when he gets back in 2-3 weeks???
2006-12-17 21:06:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We went out 5 years ago and just got back together.
His vacation was out of the country and was planned long before we started seeing each other again.
He 1/2 joked the night before he left that he was thinking of blowing off the trip to stay with me.
I met his bf (bestfriend) like once for an hour or so. She seemed nice. We really sisn't talk. He also has a female roommate. They have known each other since they were kids. Funny thing is his roommate treats me more like a sister, than anything else. I don't want to question is roommate.
As long as I've known him, he's been honest with me-- sometimes too honest! I'm afraid if something did happen on the week-long trip, he'll tell me and I'll be crushed...
2006-12-17 21:46:58 · update #1
You should ask him those questions, no one else can say for sure.
2006-12-17 21:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried. If he really liked you he would want to see you right away after his trip. He probobablly wouldnt have gone on the trip or at least invited you. 4get about him for now, don't call him, let him pursue you (if anything) for the next few weeks, otherwise forget get him for good and move on. Read "He's Just not that into you." Don't know for sure if this guy you like truly isnt into you, but read this book, and then you'll have a better idea.
2006-12-18 05:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's about to leave for work, I guess you will have to wait the 2-3 weeks.
It does sound suspicious, but you could just be thinking too deeply about it. I hate when my boyfriends have best friends that are girls, I always feel paranoid.
2006-12-18 05:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by ....... 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every possibility that he got close to her. you both need space before deciding anything.Let him go and do not ask him anything now. Let him take the initiative.
2006-12-18 05:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn t sound you were much of an item to begin with give him time if he likes you he will call.
if you feel his not calling you then move on.
2006-12-18 05:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry but most likely something happened and he is stressing over it and a little confussed
2006-12-18 05:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by cassie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Something happened but you can ask him.
2006-12-18 05:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by yummybubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"His bf is female & she also went"..what do you mean by this?
Are you okay?
2006-12-18 05:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all are worried at your nonsense
2006-12-18 05:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by indike111 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋