Why would a guy tell u one day that he cares for u so much then that night go behind ur back and hook up with a co-worker and still says he cares for you what goes through guys minds
2006-12-17 20:59:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know who he is but he doesn't represent the entire male populace............
I use to think that but there are good guys out there..
and if not there will be soon, I am raising my son to be one..
2006-12-17 21:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do think all guys play mind games. Some guys do it for fun just to see what you gone do. But they are just playing like in a joking way. Other guys do it to get a laugh about hurting your feelings because they jus don't care about you. Maybe the reason that he say he cares about you then the next day go and talk to somebody else because he is still a Lil boy and he is still up for playing Lil childish games. Or maybe he don't want to be committed to you but he is still keeping you around cause you got something he wants.
2006-12-17 21:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by Shajazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing goes through a guys mind! We are as dumb as we look! When you see us staring out into space, we are NOT in deep thought! We are totally blank!
Maybe you are reading too much into the relationship! He may care for you but it doesn't mean he's madly in love with you! And believe it when I say we'll say anything we think you want to hear in the heat of passion!
2006-12-17 21:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know that he hooked up with someone else, dump him. You don't want to be the dumb chick he tells his friends he can walk all over.
And I don't believe -every- guy plays mind games, just the majority. Be aware of what's happening in your relationships and hold out for a guy that won't screw you over.
2006-12-17 21:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by ....... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when he told you he cared for you what was your reaction...i don't condone what he has done or did...not all guys are like that but the nice ones you wouldn't give the time of day to probobly ....the best way to a guys mind is to ask let him know your confused if he cares about like he said (which in my honest opinion he doesn't) he will tell you
2006-12-17 21:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by Travis S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he goes behind your back to be with someone else and then he still "cares" for you,it means he is minding his constant hormonal problem and you are still part of his solution. In other words, he is "having his cake and eating it too."
And no...not all men play games,just most of them.
2006-12-17 21:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Michael B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are all jerks, the think with their small heads instead of the big ones. I think that because they are so competitive that they consider it a thrill to see if they could get away with it without getting caught. Don't trust them they never stop until they have caught a disease or the get old and tired
2006-12-17 21:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys do. I don't. Bottom line' The ones that do are just trying to keep you on the hook just in case things go dry elsewhere.
2006-12-17 21:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy is trying to be a "player", so he can go brag to his friends about his escapades. Don't stress over this guy. Find a cowboy, poet, or a joker. They would probably treat you better.
2006-12-17 21:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by Wisdom Guru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we should all live life 2 the fullest and forget about marriage unitl we're 26
2006-12-17 21:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by Pimpsta© 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it so because 4 playing mind game there must be a brain which is lack in them
dont mind guys
2006-12-17 21:03:40 · answer #11 · answered by love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋