my gf kissed her mate so called mate!!!
hir is what happend 2 days ago we brocke up i dumped her well it was not really over she came back askin me to take her back
i saied give me a bit of time.
she said she loves me and can not leave with out of me!! LOL
well her mate has fellings for her i saw her smses and yesterday she told me she is going to see him and tell him she loves me and that she only likes him as a friend.....
well after work she went by his house and they "talked"
and then she saied he kissed her she said she didnt kiss him back.
but she showed me her smses and they saied tnx for the kissing it ment alot to me. (he sms her )
thats when she saied she kissed him back.
i think it is cheating and there is no future in this relationship.
2006-12-17 20:56:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try using my definition of cheating to make up your mind about the future of your relationship....
I define cheating as ....
Saying or doing anything with anyone else that I would not say or do in my partners presence. Saying or doing anything that I would hide from my partner.
Cheating is more than just sleeping with someone else. It is any form of betrayal, from secretly meeting someone else, to kissing them, or engaging in anything that you know you should hide or lie about. If you feel the need to lie or hide it, then you KNOW it is wrong.
2006-12-17 21:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by jaynic72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute....you dumped her then didn't want to get back together when she asked but now you are mad because she kissed someone else??
If I understand you correctly then NO this was not cheating. You said in your own words that you wanted to "give it a bit of time." I think she was using this time wisely and exploring options open to her. I bet this mate made her feel good when she was confused and upset by being dumped BY YOU!
The future of this relationship was in question LONG before the kiss. You did major damage when you dumped her.
2006-12-17 21:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See,kissing any one is not wrong as long as you are at the recieving end.Any how if you are just concious about if she loves you or not,then i think she loves you but she loves that boy also.But yes,she is two timing you for sure.And this is because,you are giving her the chance(you seems to be too weak about her).You just forget her and say her no straight.Any way you can have another GF for yourself.If she can kiss another one why not you?so go ahead, and get another girl who will truly love you.Never give this girl another chance,because if she gets a chance she will play with you and do the same thing again.Just be like a MAn and take brave & right decision.
2006-12-17 21:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was a friendly kiss i wouldnt call it cheat.It is okay to kiss our friends.But this love is complicated.
I personally wouldnt trust my bf if he kissed other females.Its obviously an issue to be considered seriously in relationships.
I also think this girl is playing around with the two of you.She's totally clueless and cant choose on whom she really wants.I certainly dont have any desire to kiss even my closest male friend when i am into a commited relationship.Its cheating and i suggest you to move on and do yourself a favour.You are right.This relationship doesnt seem to have any future.Get off her and save yourself a lot of grief.
Good Luck!
2006-12-17 21:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to make up your ideas. dishonest on someone is not in any respect cool. yet when I were you, i'd flow with the guy that lives the position you do. To have not in any respect met someone and talk about marriage isn't a marginally intelligent area of do. you're 15. My age. we've a large number of time to imagine about that. For now, you want to maintain your ideas open.. i recognize it isn't undemanding, yet i imagine you may split with the 18 twelve months previous. %. one or the different. do not cheat. you'll merely be in a larger mess than you already are. yet even with you opt for, sturdy success. :)
2016-11-27 01:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to sort your head out, I bet if you was the one that kissed someone else you would have said you wasn't together. You can't have it all ways you said you wanted time and space in my mind that means you are not together so how could she have cheated on you??
2006-12-17 21:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by kimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems your mad really cause she beat you at your game!kissing is cheating but breaking up and telling her you will get back with her but she has to wait a bit of time ok who has control You or Her?looks like Her
2006-12-17 21:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by bri n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to trust each other in your relationship and when that is missing you should think about it.. because it may cause lot of problems in the future... so give a thought to your relationship
2006-12-17 21:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by dv_theos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in my opinion it is cheating. But you two really need to sit down and talk about things first before you just give up and walk away
2006-12-17 21:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes its cheating.between gf and bf kissing is an intimate bond.so when that bond is broken there is no more trust . love is an even greater bond so if she loved you she would have never broken that bond in the first place.
2006-12-17 21:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by boricua_queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋