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there isn't a specific time limit and chances are if you're shy or nervous about calling and talking to her over the phone so is she. so take it easy and ask questions that won't just get a yes or no answer, start with everyday questions, common ones such as "how was your day", "what you doing?" and if you feel there is something in her answer that you could talk about and stretch into a longer conversation, use it and work on that, for example if she says she's listning to music and mentions a band you know of, then you could begin talking about music and that will hopefully lead on to other conversation starters. the key is to frequently call her when you can if you like the girl, but not too often. if it's possible text her before you call just so you know if she is busy or not. be true and be yourself and after a while the nerves will settle and you will start feeling comfortable. i know how you're feeling i've been through the same thing with a guy i liked and all it needed was time. so be yourself and let your personality shine and hopefully she will enjoy your company and end up calling you the next time.
good luck i hope this helps. :)

2006-12-17 21:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by julia e 2 · 0 0

get straight to the point. "what are you doing tomorrow? let's get together. sounds good. goodbye." if she starts talking, you listen. a girl can keep you on the phone for several hours without you saying anything. but pay attention and instead of trying to be witty or cool or funny when she asks something, be honest. if you are witty or cool or funny, it'll come out naturally if you're just being yourself. if it sounds forced, you'll look like a big D O R K

2006-12-17 20:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by eelai000 5 · 0 0

Be yourself
ask her what she would like to talk about
start with the weather and then keep talking about the weather, what kind of sport do you like to watch? what kind of music you like to listen to? what do you love to eat most and why? How do you look so fine, do you go to a hairdresser to do that with your hair, it always look so good...
you have a great smile...did your mom have teeth so perfect?
Do you like this subject? what did you think of the person who taught/is teaching you Math?

Listen to her, take cues from what she is saying and make a conversation about what she is saying to you. You just need to listen and even if you are on the phone SMILE it comes through in your voice.

2006-12-17 20:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0 0

Don't do cold calling. That means make sure she knows you're going to call. Don't talk about silly things like farts and stuff that you do with your friends. Ask her questions then repeat the question halfway in a subtle way and she'll do most of the talking.

2006-12-17 20:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Wisdom Guru 3 · 1 0

There is no time limit to talking to a girl.
Where do you know her from? Ask her what she likes, hey maybe she really enjoys soccer and then you can talk about that. But first see what her interests are, what she likes doing? She is sure to say something that you can talk about.

2006-12-17 20:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by BadGirl 2 · 0 0

Be funny. Talk for as long as she wants. And if you like her, act sad when she has to hang up, or when you have to go. Talk about TV or music... broad topics will leave room for lots of conversation and 'bonding' and whatnot.

2006-12-17 20:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by ....... 4 · 0 0

talk about any topic she maust be interested in
cooking food
fashion

2006-12-17 20:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by shaikh 3 · 0 0

talk less work more

2006-12-17 20:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by love 2 · 0 3

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