Im wondering, what if the girl did not have to many as much as you did. Would that be alright, would you judge her?
2006-12-17 20:50:35 · 25 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she mostly had aquantances.
2006-12-17 20:51:40 · update #1
I have had friends past and present who have had the tendency to stab me in the back, so i am judge-mental when it comes to choosing friends and i myself don't have many. A woman though, might need her shopping time with her girls or whatever and men need some male bonding time too and may not always want his woman clung to his side.
2006-12-17 21:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by Michael B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be more likely to judge her, but sometimes the most valuable gems are hidden. So, for all i know, (assuming you are this girl) you could be worth more than many of the other girls because you are real and caring and etc. It would definitely help to have friends tho that can help you and get you through problems and etc.
It would make me feel important because i would be a major person in her life. I would receive a lot more time than if she had more friends. But, friends are VERY important to have.
2006-12-18 04:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by baller750 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would not even enter my mind ..why should it .. lots of people likes to have 2 or 3 friend only ..besides.to find a true friend it takes a life time ..and as for judging some one for not having many friends is absurd ..and not any ones place to judge some one you just met..lol
2006-12-18 05:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it's not about the friends per se... it's what kind of friends and what kind of personality the girl has.. friends MAY reveal ur character n personality.. those who live with thieves usually become thieves..(extreme, but yes, it's true generally..)
but i think that i'd choose a girl mostly for her character n personality..those 2 things seldom change..while appearances n friends may change over time...
then i would love her for who she is, even if she doesn't have so many friends..well, at least i'll help her find a friend in me.. we can start from that...
other than that, the personality will decide her friends.. usually, good personalities will attract good friends... NOT MANY friends...
2006-12-18 05:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for myself, I wouldn't mind at all. It just bepends. In general, you can't have number of friends someone has has or who and what their friends do speak for them. It is even hard to trust people in non-romantic relationships. I am not sure what other guys think.... most probably wouldn't think much of it. Some would get an ego boost out of it.
2006-12-18 05:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I Liked a girl I personally would not care weather or not she had friends, nor would I think it any of my business, I would go out with the girl, see for myself what she is like, you never ever take notice of anyone else, if you like her go for it she is probably a bit shy or something, that's giving her the benefit of the doubt, so i wish good luck to you both....
2006-12-18 04:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by brotherjohnsfo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter at all this might be good for you she can spend more time with you. Most girls who have a lot of friends like to go out with them a lot and some guy's don't like that.
2006-12-18 04:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls who don't have too many friends can be clingy. Make sure she has her own life. Otherwise, she will get to be a pain in the a*ss because she will want to hang out with you all of the time.
2006-12-18 04:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont care if a girl i like has friends or not as long she is cool with it.
2006-12-18 05:02:57 · answer #9 · answered by J Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy....but any girl who actually REALIZES, that what most people call "friends" ARE actually acquaintances...is one smart girl. And any guy would be lucky to have her.
2006-12-18 04:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋