he never showed up to my doctors appointment which he promised. that happened friday since then is when i havent talked to him what should i do?or think
2006-12-17 20:32:28 · 11 answers · asked by jc_sjs_9396 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
In some ways I have to agree with Heather... but, also hes probably scared right now, unless of course he has done this before, then you may have some problems.
2006-12-17 20:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by emtb9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what happened the last time you two were together? And of course he's demeanor, what is he like? Is this the norm for him?
Sounds like he feels he has more important things to deal with in his life than you and your baby. I would say he's a loser and move on but I know you won't do that. You are like millions of us, still hoping they turn around and change for the baby's sake at least. I know I've been there. But honey, they don't. They just get worse because we don't stop them from disrespecting us in the beginning so they think it's ok, that we will be there anyways until one day it does end, bitterly and the child is the one that suffers.
Just stop calling and don't sound to anixous to see him anymore and see how he acts. If he thinks you are ready to move on with or without him you will be more appealing to him then and he might, I repeat he might, wise up. Or he might just show you that he really won't be there for you at all, ever when you really need him and trust me it's better now than later.
I learned the hard way.
2006-12-18 05:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by LC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has he done this before? How long have you been together? Are you getting married just because of the baby? He may be very scared right now, and you may need to give him time to adjust to the idea of being a husband and father. Not too much time though. You need to focus on you and your baby, and if he can't step up to the plate, don't marry him. Make plans for yourself, and if he fits into the picture, great. Know that you can do this without him.
2006-12-18 04:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by alstar333 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OK- looks like he's moved on or found someone else. I would start filing for child support if I were you.
I think if he actually HUNG up the phone on you... that a pretty bad sign.
PS- you should add more details about the topic so we can help you better, this is a pretty general statement.
2006-12-18 10:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When did you find out you were pregnant? and when did you let him know him know. I think he is avoiding you. I'm sorry for telling you this but it looks like he doesn't want to have anything to do with this.
2006-12-19 18:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by teresita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to give him a little time, he could just be freaking out, the reality that he's a father could be just hitting him
2006-12-18 11:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may just be freaking out because your pregnant he may need a little time before he regains his senses
2006-12-19 11:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by Meredith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true he might be scared, but he helped make this baby. if he doing this to you now, what will he do if you get married and something stressful happens? leave you to deal with it? i had my 1st child by myself. you can do it. you have to think of your baby and yourself.
2006-12-18 12:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by tinaguhc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really weird that he would do that. You need to find out whats wrong with him
2006-12-18 08:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by anneanderson85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you shouldn't have gotten pregnant before you got married.
he's probably scared s***less.
looks like you're raising a baby on your own. should have thought about it before.
2006-12-18 04:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋