My boyfriend is a good guy.He's nice and he's sweet.He cheated on me & his bro was his accomplice! WHEN WE WERENT SERIOUS, but we were having unprotected sex with ONLY EACHOTHER.he told me AND THATS A GOOD THING.I forgave him because there was no commitment. Ok, but he hasnt seen his brother for a year and he's been with me everyday for 2 years straight.Like he'll work and come home.Well see his mom on weekends and stuff...every other weekend or something like that.NOW he's like anxious to see his brother and I guess u can say IM SCARED he might cheat on me but I KNOW hes not like that.He wouldnt cheat on me now, were so close.I just dont want him with him! I feel like he's ditching me for his f*cking stupidass cheatin brother(his bro was cheating on his wife & two kids! sick bastard!).Am I wrong for feeling like this? I dont even like him hanging w/ frenz cus i dont want him around girls Should I just let him go hang out? I mean it is his brother but I dont know, im a jealous girl!
2006-12-17 19:50:02 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did a much better job of wording this question. The last time I thought you meant he had sex with his brother!
If he loves you, he won't cheat again, regardless of who he is hanging around with. If he does cheat, dump him and be thankful that you realized he was a cheating bumb before you married him.
2006-12-17 19:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, get over the jealousy...it'll eat you alive. If you're not serious, then what the hell is the big deal?? Perhaps he's having unprotected sex with you but using protection with someone else??
If you're not exclusive then you really have no say in the matter.
You do sound like a very nice girl, however..I don't mean to sound rude. I hope it works out and he realizes what he's screwing up.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-17 19:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to quit contact with all of them and start new. seems like there is too much lying going on and you got involved. bummer. but you can rebound. just stop asap with all contact and have yourself checked out for aids. sounds serious, it could be, but also very protective. and as i said, dump em all mo matter how much it hurts. you are hurting so much right now, why add to it. i am not gonna say there are more fish in the sea, just start over. simple answer, but hard for your heart and soul but since you have so much pride to ask about it, you CAN do it
2006-12-18 11:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to get rid of the jealous. being jealous is only going to ruin the relationship , second you have to have trust. third , your playing with fire, if you try to break him from seeing his brother, thats family. the only thing i see is talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. and the first time he cheats say good bye and find another guy that will treat you well.
2006-12-17 19:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy will get you in all sort of troubles. Not trusting someone is almost as bad as someone cheating on you.
You have to let him loose. You cannot tie him down.
Let him prove to you that you can trust him.
And if you catch him cheating on you...drop him.
You cannot force someone to love you...nor can you force someone to be faithfull to you. These are the two things everyone expect in a relationship...If he cannot give them to you from his own free will...you should not be with him.
2006-12-17 20:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that would depend on where they are hanging out wether you should be mad or not. Although . . . . with it being his brother, how can you forbid him to go? If you have no reason to not trust him at this point, then trust him. Unless he gives you reason otherwise, he deserves to be trusted.
2016-05-23 03:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to trust your husband. you cann't watch him every were he goes, if he wants to see his brother, then not much you can do about it. unless you make a point to go out together but doesn't sound like you like the guy to much. so let him go, and trust that he won't do something crazy. Good luck
2006-12-17 19:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta have trust girl. If he does cheat on you then he isn't the one for you. Best to find out these things before you get married anyway. Don't forget, if your boyfriend's dick is going to stand, it won't be because of his brother......
2006-12-17 19:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Cream 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and let the guy go hang out with his brother
2006-12-17 19:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by Purpslinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get in the way of family. Seriously.
2006-12-17 19:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Frenzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋