I've got a crush on this guy. He seems friendly with other girls too and flirt with them. He asked questions about my thoughts on certain topics and seem to stare at me when i haven't noticed. If i ignor him, he'll try to talk to me. We seem to be able to talk about almost every topis esp. about each other's family / values. We seem to have come from similar background. He nevered touched me but occasionally give great advice. He seems egoistic but there's something about him that attracts me and i've nevered really felt comfortable talking to guys except him. He's not around anymore but he asked for my number saying he'll call me to go for a drink... i've refused. I've found out his phone number and email address. I've attempted to call and write emails... but he didn't call back. The email he sent me was generalised and showed a reflection of what i wrote. Should i ring him, is he interested or just playing with my feelings? pls help
2006-12-17 19:33:00 · 5 answers · asked by Pink Lotus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get the book "The Rules" and read it. I used to blow that book off but after one failed relationship after another, I finally decided to apply some of the principals and it's made a HUGE difference.
I don't agree with every thing it says in the book, but I do believe for the most part that if a man is interested in you, you (for the most part) will know it. They're innatly the agressors in most of their relationships. That being said, if things are this complicated and confusing, chances are good he's simply not as interested as yo are.
Sorry and good luck. Get the book.
2006-12-17 19:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sheryl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please go on call him and make an offer say for a drink or coffee together if he is an understanding person he will accept the offer or he will propose say another day not particularly that you chose. If he read letter still in envelope, he is your then. Good luck
2006-12-18 03:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by ConRob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have nothing to lose, and maybe he never recieved the first call i'm sure he wont think your a nut for calling 2 times. sounds like you might both be to shy to do anything so someone has to make the move if thats the case.
2006-12-18 03:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a player
why are u attracted to him?
coz hes prob a bad boy huh? true?
something about those bad boys that makes us want them more..
stay clear .. if he doesnt call/email you etc .. then dont chase...
2006-12-18 03:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are being played one word for him LOSER
2006-12-18 03:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by feelingstupid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋