I cant say this is normal. At the same time it is not that uncommon also. In this situation the girl is in love wtih a guy and physically attracted to another. Usually this happens when the lover guy is far away, or he is not taking initiative to physically satisfy the girl. A very common example in our daily life is the case with wives of people working far away( like soldiers). Even though they love their husband, she will long for physical satisfaction when husband is not around for long time.
As a matter of unmarried lady, here you have two options. You can continue to be in physical relationship with her, at the same time she loves the other guy. Or you can slowly force her to break the other relationship. Both of these options are as simple as it hears.
2006-12-17 19:43:23
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answered by Mr Strange 2
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It's more than possible to love someone, but be physically attracted to someone else. Yes, it's VERY normal. I don't think she's right to be acting like that with you when her man's not around though.
2006-12-18 03:35:06
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answered by hiclaude 3
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She is in love with the other guy. She is in lust with you. Now, you got to decide how you feel about her. If you are okay with her not being in love with you then go with the flow. If you are worried going forward will ruin a good friendship then set her straight. At least bet some answers as to what she wants.
2006-12-18 03:36:30
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answered by ? 4
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yes completely normal. because love and physical attraction are different issues. love is about heart and mind. sex is about hormones and genitals. many people can find third person attractive. if you noticed, she is always telling about sex. does she want to leave him and marry you? there are a lot of beautiful and sexy and charming etc. guys or girls even if you are married or in love with someone. moral and religious values keep us away from third persons or shout up our mouth from telling these kind of things.
2006-12-18 03:47:50
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answered by foliathymi 1
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NO, what I think this relationship will not come to an end. What i suggest you that you should leave her. She just want you because of your physical attraction not because she loves you. If you carry on with this relationship you may end up dissapointed. Good luck
2006-12-18 03:36:32
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answered by hafidz 3
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yes it is perfectly normal you are her best friend and she has been around you long enough that she has a very strong attraction to you and she really likes you and yes she might love this guy but yet she has feelings for you and she might not love this guy its hard to say
2006-12-18 03:36:54
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answered by xASHx 2
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Actually called "Infatuation", as per your statement I don't see her loving either you or her boyfriend. It's all about the teen age symptoms. However the guys around her will have sweet and sweat time with her, bad things is that she didn't understand her life yet.
2006-12-18 03:37:22
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answered by siva_kum 3
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welcome to the fickle ways of women my friend. Normal? Hmmm??? At least tell her to sort out her feelings for you and the other guy. Don't be played, especially by a friend. If she wants you, tell her she can't have both.
2006-12-18 03:37:47
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answered by NIGHTSHADE 4
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she is young and just wants to have fun she has no clue as to what she really wants in a relationship. sounds like she should not be tied down to one person. give her what she wants... in the room.
2006-12-18 03:35:38
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answered by benzeeno619 3
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It's obvious that she is attracted to you and she can not admit it, even to herself!
2006-12-18 03:35:54
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answered by Roubini 5
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