Me and my boyfriend are together for 4 months now....
We have been through the "meeting each other" process and now we are at the "testing and where this relationship is going" stage. The other day,after he pissed me off for a stupid argument we had he began a conversation about our relationship and he was saying in a funny way that we are very different characters, our opinions rarely agree on many matters and that the most important thing we agree on is SEX! I asked him, what shall we do about it,is there a solution on this or should we split our ways up... and he said, no we better stay together and let the relationship work on her own. I feel the same too.We do have different general opinions but we both have a splendid time in bed...What do you think we should do?I was thinking of breaking up with him now before it's too late....
2006-12-17 19:15:26 · 4 answers · asked by Soulla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't have a lot of practical advice to give you, but based on the old expression of "opposites attract", and based on my observations of how this seems to apply very well to a lot of relationships I've had the opportunity to observe, I'd say that the two of you probably could have a future together. If one or both of you really want that, though, you're going to have to work at it because it might not come together that easily for you. Although "opposites attract", there still has to be SOMETHING that holds the relationship together. If SEX is it, and you're both happy with that, then I see nothing wrong with it, but if you think you (or he) might want more or need than that and you're not sure you're going to be able to get (or give) it, you might want to think about exploring the "breakup" option.
2006-12-17 19:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by G A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think both of you are in for fun,and not a serious relationship.
2006-12-18 03:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mariam N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should.....sounds like u both dont love eachother but just want each other for sex...u r his F*** buddy and he's ur F*** buddy...thats how this sounds like....and thats bad...
2006-12-18 03:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by chipmunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up & pull BOB out of the closet... you will find someone who gives you emotional satisfaction as well as sexual satisfaction when you least expect it... really, you will.
2006-12-18 03:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋