no doubt he loves me a lot, but at times i feel dat i expected sumthin n he is sumthin else.as its just 5 mon to our marriage n he is abroad.,so wat should i do to make him realize dat unintensionally , he hurts people...so pls advise me on how to change dis habit of him...n to make him realoze dat he is wrong at times...n i no his weakness dats "ME." but how shud i make use of dat ..HELP PLS...
2006-12-17 18:47:07 · 5 answers · asked by mahveensmum 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You cannot change anyone and if you try you two will not get along. Remember he is a man and with that comes pride.Something you will learn to give up yourself.The first year is the hardest for the man because they think their whole life is over the thought of one woman for the rest of their life is so over whelming for them.So take it easy on him he will come around on his own and if he don't tell him you will cut him off for good unless he changes his ways.!!
2006-12-17 19:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel. He might not do it intentionally and might just want your help on changing it. If he is doing it intentionally then he's probably doing it coz he want u to know he is in charge not you. if that's the case you should let him no you wanna equal relationship. The first yr is suppose to be the honeymoon period the dramas come after that!! i hope you's can work through it coz yous obviously *** this far :) Tell him how much your hurting coz of this, he loves you and will wanna work through it, he'll probably feel bad... GOOD LUCK :)
2006-12-17 20:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there you have been married has this just started since you both have married or has this always been a part of youre relationship ......only you can answer this and if its always been there to be really honest i wouldnt have married this rude sod !! but if this has only started since you have beenmarried there is only one thing that you can do and that is to sit down and talk this problem out together there could be a concern that he has or something that he cant cope with ......or he could just be being a right pig ......do not put up with being treated like a door mat we all have feelings and he needs to know that good luck and take care xx
2006-12-17 20:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First is learn to speak and write English. You have to be honest with your husband and tell him in a polite way how you feel.
Sometimes we can't change our husbands. Just accept him the way he is and don't nag him.
2006-12-17 18:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Tenn Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋