This week, I found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me for my best friend. I want to stay friends with her but I feel so betrayed! She said she didn't know he was my boyfriend but I think she really does. HELP! should I still be friends with her or is she a backstabber???
2006-12-17 18:41:17 · 30 answers · asked by Bordering Suicide 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people who do things like that to people they are supposed to love or care about dont deserve to even have ur friendship i would just keep cool dont make a scene and cut her out of ur life you dont need either of them and ..whos to say she wont do it again ...forgive her but find a new best friend you dont need drama in your life ..hope ur okay ..you deserve a better friend and bf hope lal worksout!
2006-12-17 18:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could your best friend 'not' know he was your boyfriend?!!
Of course she knew.....
If you are best friends then she must have met or seen him with you sometimes, and surely she knew how you felt about him!!
Now that you have been betrayed by 'both' of them it's time to let them 'both' go there own seperate ways.
If they can betray you once, then they can do it again.
I would 'NEVER' trust a so-called 'best friend' if she ever lied to
me for 'any' reason.
And I certainly wouldn't trust a guy who cheated on me.
Hopefully you're smart enough to know they arn't worth your time
or your friendship.
Now find someone who will 'really' care about you!!
2006-12-18 02:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly she obviously aint your best friend if she doesn't know who your darling is! Theres certain lines that even common friends shouldnt cross! Going at it with your man was a big mistake on her part and even BIGGER BOO BOO on the side of your so-called boyfriend! Honey, let them both go and be miserable together!
There's probably a hunk waiting right around the corner!
**Don't frown so much, you'll never know when someones trying to fall in love with your smile!**
2006-12-18 02:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sistr P* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not dumb u no the answer so why are u asking ?
of course she knew she probabily got a kick out of it
guys come and go u will find pleanty in ur life time so ditch this guy and find another if u really want a bf and loose the girl friend too she isnt a true friend if she would do that to u
friends arnt that important in ur life
family are and ur self and pppl that nevor ***** with u
ever
2006-12-18 05:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does ur best friend NOT KNOW he was UR boyfriend? thats doesnt sound like a best friend 2 me... u need to get rid of them both, cuz once he cheats, he'll stay a cheater, and she can keep doing this 2 u by sayin "i didnt no" dump them both and let them enjoy themselves, u deserve better and can do a hell of a lot better =)
2006-12-18 02:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by latinababe0105@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, I hope you dumped your boyfriend.... It depends how good your relationship is with her...If you want to stay friends with her maybe try talking about the situation with her. Tell her how you feel...Did you have solid evidence of this or was it info from a person.
2006-12-18 02:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by myxodo05 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First is first, always remember, it takes 2 to tango. They are both equally to blame. I personally believe, that is a line you don't cross with friends. Will you ever be able to trust either again? I dought it. I also believe, once a cheater, always a cheater. Cut your strings on both ends and move on. No need to be bitter or hateful. Life is to short for that. Just tell both of them you believe it's best to leave well enough alone and your going to move on with your life without either of them. Good luck to you.
2006-12-18 02:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by tamlovinlife2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, how honest has your "friend" been in the past? Do a little detective work, but i'll bet she knew....That sucks, i'm sorry! Time for a new best friend and boyfriend!
If she was really your best friend I would think she would know who you are dating????
2006-12-18 02:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put up with anything you don't like! I think the fact that you want to stay friends with her is that you feel insecure! Try to really find out what you feel! If you still want her to be your friend, at least see if she is really feels bad about it!
2006-12-18 02:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by Roubini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your best Friend o course she would know that he is ur boy Friend but she is not that good of a Friend if she and she didn't know that Ur where going out you should leave her but just think is she didn't know you where going out you might loose your best Friend forever so you should dump the boy and try get the truth out of your Friend best Friends are relay special so try and not stuff it up good luck from Adam
2006-12-18 02:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋