its it important to keep your virginity til marriage or for the person u love. or is it a better idea to lose it when u get the chance.
2006-12-17 17:08:45 · 31 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-17 17:08:56 · update #1
I this day and age sex has become as unimportant and casual as a hand shake. I still view virginity as the one thing in your life you have total control of, something that is yours and yours only to give. It is a gift that can only be unwrapped once. It is your choice if you want the gift wrap to be ripped of by a meaningless one night stand or be unwrapped gently by the one you love. I want my husband to be the receiver of this special once in a lifetime gift.
2006-12-17 17:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by jmk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im keeping my virginity until i get married....its a personal choice...i guess my culture (pakistani), religion (Christianity), and personal values have influenced me...i believe that sex is a very intimate and secretive thing.... it should be kept for some one special in ur life that u know ur gna spend the rest of ur life with. I dont like the idea of losing it when u can..the present day culture of America has made it impossible for virgins (especially guys) to talk about these kind of issues, or for them to state out loud that they're still virgins even by the age of 21...but by standing out...we can make a difference...
(lol didnt mean for my answer to sound like a political speech...)
Happy Holidays to u too! :)
God Bless
2006-12-17 18:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Joho, virginity is one of the more overrated quantities in the western world. The sex drive is one of the strongest drives anybody has. So we are all tempted all the time to exercise that drive. Some people scratch their itch every chance they get. Others don't seem to be quite so consumed by desire and can take it or leave it. I suggest you simply do whatever you think is best at the time. That doesn't mean to run into temptation every chance you get...it means to honor yourself by how you live. If you are honoring yourself by your choice of friends, you will find sex will come along when it feels right. Marriage is something different from sex-they don't necessarily go together like ham and eggs. Some married people have little or no sex and some unmarried people have lots of sex. Go figure.
2006-12-17 17:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not a silly question. If you want to marry a person who is a virgin, then expect to keep your virginity until marriage. If you don't care, then give it up, but you are only a virgin one time. Once you loose it, there is no returns. Answer the question, is the pain/ecstasy of a momentary orgasm worth it? And, then there are the consequences of an unwanted pregnancy. Big serious questions.
2006-12-17 17:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it can be very hard to keep your virginity until marriage. Plus, if you are a guy I think that it would be hard because of all of the ridicule that you will get form other guys, but I do know that it is hard for girls because of the pressure from the guys. I also think that it now longer is valued like it once was. So, in my opinion go right ahead.
2006-12-17 17:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by iluvmyfrenchbulldogs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO! Keep it and save it for the one u love. She will be special and that is best. Also this way you will not get some thing you don't want like ADS. You're on the right track and keep it that way until you get married. You can do a lot with out going all the way. Go home and take a cold shower.
2006-12-17 17:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's as important to you as you want it to be... ya know? Sex is very important. However, however it is you want to deal with it is up to you. I'm monogamous, but I'm not married. It's the only girl I've ever had sex with, and I plan on keeping it that way. If she leaves me, it will break my heart, and sex is a kind of "glue" that would make that separation harder mentally. However, with the divorce rates these days, I think I have a better chance of staying with my girlfriend than most do with their spouses...
it's all relative
2006-12-17 17:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by bigcatbarber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I believed in keeping your virginity until you are married but I ended up falling in love and losing it before I got married.... I am getting married to this ma in March and if you find the right person and you choose to make that decision DONT REGRET IT!!!!
2006-12-17 17:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by trini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a person should shop around and see what's out there before settling with one person for the rest of their life. It's healthy to go out and "sew your wild oats" before marriage. It will make for a happier marriage if you have already sampled what else there is and you are not constantly wondering how different sex is with other people.
I also think you should live with someone and have sex with them before marriage. That way if there is something you don't like you know before hand. You don't really know a person until you have lived with them.
2006-12-17 17:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on your personal and religious beliefs. When you lose your virginity, you should do it because YOU are ready for it to happen. The way that I knew I was ready was when sex became the most natural way of expressing love to my partner.
2006-12-17 17:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Walker Boh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋