i just had a break up with my boyfriend. Actually, he was the one who gave up our relationship because he has another girl. help please? just email me- ciannegillianne@yahoo.com
2006-12-17 17:04:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to hear of whats happened to you. You loved someone and were true in your heart to him. Yet he betrayed you...It may be of small comfort but know and understand that you were true to those feelings and you loved honorably. There is no shame in that. Love is an expression of hope and optimism for the future. A shared future that did not happen this time, but will some day happen with the right person. So it's OK to grieve your loss but also remember that there is still a future out there. One day you will share it with a special someone that will be as devoted to that shared love as you are too...
2006-12-17 17:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave someone else this same advice, it really is the best advice can give you, and believe you me Ive been through this before, and it really is the truth. To forget is something so many of us want, but we know we can never truly have. No matter what happened with him and yourself , you grew as a person, even though you might not know it yet. He was your stepping stone to the next big challenge in your life, so thank him for that. You will move on, but it will take time, and some effort. You will grow as a person and be stronger from your learned mistakes. Love is a beautiful and terrifying thing, but love does heal what love has broken. Make sure you fill your days by being around people who love and care for you. There love will heal your wounds for sure. Just remember the time you spent with him taught you so many things that you will need for life's other challenges. Have yourself a very Happy Holiday!
2006-12-17 17:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by S-Darcy-81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody will tell you the same thing: Move On. The question is how? I know this time when nothing feels good, you feel rejected, you feel as if you are not that good as you thought. The other good qualities in you, which you are always proud of, seem like nothing.
But someone told me this nice piece, take note very seriously:
"When you keep dwelling on this, you are hurting yourself.....the person, who broke your heart is basking in joy. So you loose in the end this way, not him .... so do yourself a favor: PICK YOUSELF! and take pride in it!
2006-12-17 17:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Infinite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up. You will find a guy who treats you with the up most respect you deserve. Don't ever let a guy bring you down, because the guy who loves you, is the one who would never break your heart. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-17 17:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to these other answers, it had nothing to do with you, he had another girl, it's his fault and it shows that he didn't really care about you. It may seem like it hurts now, but in the future when you find the person who does really care, you'll laugh about this, I guarantee you. You are special, you just have to find the person who sees you for you.
2006-12-17 17:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by knownasmax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-06 10:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by Elois 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 03:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by balick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another guy. That will help you.
Also, figure out what made your first guy leave you in the first place. There is something that the guy did not like about you that most other guys will not like either. Fix it and make sure it doesn't happen again.
2006-12-17 17:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
God will help you. Ask!
2006-12-17 17:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by ~~~Tara~~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-17 17:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by Rocklander 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋