have been dating a guy (henceforward 'guy A') for 2 years and aside from some insurmountable problems (don't ask, just believe), we like each other very much. But because of this problem we have decided to part and we agreed that this would happen whenever one of us met someone else. It was, and is, a mutual decision.
Now, i met guy B a few weeks ago (he's an artist) and i think i like him. We haven't had sex yet, or even kissed (I'm a Westerner living in Asia; sometimes you have to wait a bit longer here...but it's worth it), but we (both guy B and myself) know it will happen soon.
In the meantime, I am still enjoying all the delightful treasures of guy A (sex I mean), and I don't plan to stop until guy B and I have 'consumated' our relationship.
Both guy A and guy B are unaware of each other's existance (for now).
I'm a healthy western girl who likes to have sex...That's not so wrong...right?
2006-12-17 17:02:50 · 7 answers · asked by god d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Interesting that you ask about "morally" right or wrong. What is it that prompts the use of that word? To me, "morals" are not hurting someone else. So your "moral dilemma" is whether or not you hurt one of your friends. Another question to ask,however, is whether you are honoring yourself? I think this is the real question. If you are honoring yourself then you won't be worrying about "morals", you will be living your own life by your own rules...which you know to be true. Listen to your inner voice, it never lies to you.
2006-12-17 17:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're going to proceed with guy "B" you should break it off with guy "A". It is not right to treat your old love this way, or your new! You wouldn't want to be used in this manner, would you? I realize you're a "healthy western girl", but there are still some things in the western world that are just not done.
2006-12-17 17:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong. Your filthy. You don't paly two guys. I hope someone plays you. I hope they find out about each other and dump your filthy ***. get a life.
2006-12-17 17:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the pies decide
2006-12-17 17:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Dizzle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're fine...you're not married to either one. Live it up. Just be safe. You can commit to one when you decide for sure which it will be~
2006-12-17 17:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no thats not wrong
2006-12-17 17:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by Skater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...i thought i just answered this or am i seeing things???????????????????????????????????????????
2006-12-17 17:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by BOOYAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋