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I really do love him 100% but im scared that me not being attracted to him, like his looks that the realtionship is doomed for failure. But at the same time i think that will be okay because i love everything else about him. His personality, what he does for me and for others around him, the way he treats me and others, the way i feel when im with him, and so many other things.I know i love him but i'm scared what this could do to our relationship. What do you think?

2006-12-17 16:55:18 · 22 answers · asked by pink_42us 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

22 answers

it wont do anything unless you let it. love conquers all

2006-12-17 16:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

If you are worried about what other people will think when they see you with him then you are wrong. There is nothing that the exterior of this man can do for you except his penis. All the love and care comes from the inside and that is what matters most. You say that the way he treats you makes you feel happy then that's what you should by. If you are embarrassed of his looks then let someone else that won't be enjoy the love that he gives. Sorry to put that way but it is the truth.

2006-12-17 17:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by CRUNKMAN 2 · 1 0

Why are you scared that his looks are not attractive? Who gave you the authority on how some looks? You have a man that treats you like gold and is nice to others around him and you. You don't deserve him.

Hey, here's some food for thought. Break up with him since your relationship is already doomed for failure. Then find someone that is drop dead gorgeous that treats you like nothing. You might apreciate him.

2006-12-17 17:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by Vivian 2 · 2 0

I've never been in that situation. When you get to talk to someone initially, its normally the physical attraction that come first and then you get to love them from getting to know him. Like the previous poster wrote, love is blind. It shouldnt matter if he is goodlooking to you... if you are in love, you shouldnt care what he looks like. He will be goodlooking to you because you love him... if that makes any sense. It could be a bad thing if you are not physically attracted to someone because that's kinda of important in a relationship. You need passion and intamacy and I dont see how that is possibe with out attraction. With out those things, you have an empty relationship with just commitment but no intamacy or passion.

2006-12-17 17:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by __XXX___ 3 · 0 0

Love is important in any relationship. It is the bases for so many things. Lust is also important. If you are not attracted to him, physically, you will have problems later on. If you have been dating enough to decide that you love him then there is nothing wrong with that, however, if you can never be really truly happy with him, perhaps you can stay friends while you move on. Harsh, I know, but true.

2006-12-17 16:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by The Pope 5 · 1 0

love conquers nothing. if you arent physically attracted to him eventually, your entire attraction to him will go away (it is just an attraction) and you will be stuck hurting an innocent guy cuz if he really is as nice as you say he will be hurt. before ya jump in think about it. when was the last time you saw a pretty girl with an ugly guy that wasnt rich? if you cant think of more than one, then you'll know im right.

2006-12-17 17:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Leave him. You are really confused. You cannot love a man you do not think is attractive (okay well Mrs. Trump can but the money is the key there). Unless he has tons of money, a great job, and he treats you like a queen: leave and find a poor guy you love.

2006-12-17 16:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

If your love was true you wouldn't be asking this question, however, even in the truest of loves we have are moments of doubt, so you have to ask your self what is really important to you, looks, or love. I think you already know the answer to this question. It's with in "you", what really matters to you? Once you answer that for you, "you" will be fine. I personally hope it works out for the both of you. Good luck!

2006-12-17 17:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0 0

Maybe after you guys are together for a while he will start to "grow on you". I wasn't very attracted to my hubby, actuall at all, but after getting to know him & living with him, made me so attracted to him. I now think he is the hottest thing God created & feel so lucky to have him. Just go with your heart. Good Luck

2006-12-17 17:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ballagirl 2 · 1 0

Sounds like the brotherly type if u are not physically attracted to him.
He is just a friend and not a passionate boyfriend.
Move on and find the right one but remain friends with him

2006-12-17 16:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 2 0

you should love him for him. sounds like to me you might be afraid of what other people might think. If he is as good as a person as you say he is, then most likley, people see that rather than his imporfections. love is blind. If he were blind, what kind of mental picture would you be to him? dont worry about what other people think, love him for him and except that he is not a prince, but he treats you like a princess and thats what matters

2006-12-17 17:05:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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