When i was in grade 3 i asked a girl out... but we were to young to do anything, and in grade 7 i asked a girl out but she moved away. now i am in grade 10 and not going out with anyone... though there is someone i want ask out.... but leave your opinion!
2006-12-17 16:53:02 · 23 answers · asked by Dark-soul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are fifteen years old. I know people way older than that who have never been on a date/kissed. You are to young to be worrying about this. It will all come in time. Try to enjoy your childhood, it's the only one you're going to have ( or in some cases remember) so try to make the best out of it. Time will come in the future for grown up things, and when it does embrace it. For right now, let it go. It's not the right time.
2006-12-17 16:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by The Pope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm almost done with high school and I haven't done anything like that either!
TRUST ME - you will want to wait...save the first date/first kiss for someone special. Don't just kiss anyone cuz you haven't before! Plus, you are much more attractive when you haven't done those things before later in life. Wouldn't it be great to find another girl the same way, though? You get to be the first one to do that with her and she won't know the difference!
Just wait a while...
;)
2006-12-18 01:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by mtngrl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon...first of all...every one is supposed to have a different life...so plz do not fall in the mistake I am suffering from at this very moment...comparing myself to others
you are special as yourself..so what you have not gone out in a date? there must be other aspects in your life that make up for it...you are smart, creative, etc.
It is not like you are less of a person ..just because you have not yet dated someone...they are probably missing out on a whole lot..of which they are not even aware!
But, if you are so intersted in going for it, then you must pick the girl who seems interested in you. Someone you hang out with already like a friend ... and from that the relationship could evolve..
take care...
2006-12-18 01:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by dEletEd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that's totally ok! i didnt have a real boyfriend, first kiss, or any type of date until 9th grade. I'm in college now and like to think i turned out alright. Don't worry; it'll all work out for you and you're completely normal so don't fret over that either
2006-12-18 00:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by aubs010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally ok!!! It seems like you have lived forever when you are at that age but as you grow older you realize just how unready you are for dating at that age. Just take your time and find the right girl and do it all for the right reasons, not just because you feel pressure to do it because of your age. It will be worth it when you get to do all of that with the right one!
2006-12-18 00:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it. I remember being worried about that also, at that age, and you know, it was even later when I finally kissed someone.
my advice is, go to a summer camp. when it's not the people you grew up with and who you will see day after day, it's easier to risk a kiss ;-)
2006-12-25 00:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by ♥perishedmemories♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't get my first kiss till i was 18 so don't feel bad then later i got my first serious boyfriend. If you like this girl ask her don't be afraid. everyone is afraid when they ask some out. go for it
2006-12-18 01:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ashe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is totally O.K>.... don't rush it... believe it or not,,, you are still kid, and you need some time to mature,,, both physically and emotionally....having a girlfriend isn't all that it's cracked up to be....check out any one of your buddies that has a girlfriend... especially at your age... it can be a bit of a drag..... just lie low for a while longer and play it cool.... you'll be all right.... good luck
2006-12-18 00:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by Traynor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats ok im also 15 and I have never had a date. just dont think about it too much and u'll be fine. go ask her out, go for it. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-18 00:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have several options:
1) Stay at your computer and IM/Text her or
2) Get off your computer and call her
3) Ask her next time you see her
2006-12-18 00:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by JuventAus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋