Well their is this guy I get together with sometimes for casual sex. Anyways today I was online talking to him then he was telling he had this big pain on his neck and that he took this pill and thats why he was out of it. So I said sarcastically ya I got laid last night. Then he wrote why do you say things like that, then I was gonna answer he said it doesnt matter, have a good nite. Then I tried to apologize saying I was joking. Anyways why would he be mad about that you know he doesnt want a relationship with me cuz we were seeing each other then he ended it. So Im confused....
2006-12-17 16:46:48 · 8 answers · asked by Aby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my mind there's three possibilities:
1. he was tired, didn't want to start an argument or anything, or something came up... and he had to leave.
2. since breaking up with you some feelings have reappeared and he wants to be with you again.
3. whilst he doesn't want a relationship, he also doesn't like the idea of you sleeping with other people.
I've been in this situation before, and in my case it was option 3. You know him better than I do... what do you think?
2006-12-17 17:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi cutie !!!
Look guys are egoistical and greedy. Probably he didn't want to see you because, he wanted to get with some one else. But at the same time, he would not like you to see any body else just in case he, he feels like "rolling in the hay" with you again!!!
Come on girl, don't fall into that trap of him giving you the guilty trip. He is having his fun, but is trying to put you on hold for seconds. Please, respect yourself a little more. If you don't do it who do you think is going to???
If you are into casual sex, be careful, pretty soon you will have all your casualties wanting to "ring your bell", but not when you want to or need to. They will be coming when no one else is available, but you are !!!!
Is NOT a very healthy or serious way of thinking about yourself!!!
Stop being in denial !!! You know exactly why he is acting like he is. He is immature and never took you seriously. What about self respect???
Be careful, GOD BLESS YOU.
MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY NEW YEAR
ALLIV Z
2006-12-18 01:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was on whatever pill he was taking when he told you this. some pills can make you irritible and make you not think before you speak. He could also think that you are cheating on him. Give him some good sex and if he is not into you than find another guy that is. Im sure you are not ugly and can find other men.
2006-12-18 00:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he said he had taken a pill for the pain in his neck probably was out of his sorts because of that and didnt want to get into a discussion that involved concentration. atleast he said have a good night. maybe he just wants you not to be so blunt.
2006-12-18 00:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be the medicene he took was making him react strangly, He may have feelings he did not realize, He may think because you are having casual sex that you should not be sleeping with anyone else
2006-12-18 00:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by loveamouse7767 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he likes you much more than you realize. I remember a girl like that when I was younger, yeah, we were supposed to be casual. Then, without realizing it, I was falling for her, seeing her talk to other guys, knowing she went clubbing. . .for us guys, it's an ego bruiser.
I understand how it could be confusing, she was confused about how I was acting and reacting, I had to go for a much less attractive 'casual' partner.
2006-12-18 00:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sandman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if you know this buuuuut.... usually when a guy has sex with you... there are some feelings there,,, especially if you are some what of Friends....joking around about what kind of a s;;; you are can hurt someone who cares about you,,, even in the least.....look deeper into you heart and see what is really happening between you and him.... men like to play tough and cool, but we are really big babies inside... treat us gently...
2006-12-18 00:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give importance to every small things, take things on fact value, wen he said it doesn't matter, and then good nite, then let it b, why u thinking so much bout it
2006-12-18 00:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋