i like this guy, who i'v known for 3 years. right now, we're good friends, but lately i found out that he likes this girl, one of my friends. i can act like nothing is wrong around him, but i'm going crazy inside. i really need to get over him, but i still want to be friends...
2006-12-17 16:38:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give ur self some time, dont push things, dont push urself to act compltetely normal wen u r not, we all r human , so its quite normal to get crazy feelings inside wen u know he is falling for somebody else, once u accept it, things will beocme easy for u, i dont think these is any purpose telling him, dpends uopn ur comfort level with him, but i think u shud gradually work on it, u have to maintain some distance, otherwise it wont b possoible u cant b best of friends nad b in love wen u know he is not in the same state, so try and keep some distance, and work on ur feelings
2006-12-17 16:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi broken_wi !!!
One easy way to help yourself, is to think if he didn't tell you or ask you or did something to call your attention then he doesn't look at you or feel for you other than a good friend.
If the feeling is not there, well is not!!! And no matter what you do, is not going to be. And if you force the situation into him probably are going to lose a friend.
The way I look at this is that is NOT his problem, is yours!!!
So I suggest be a good friend to him, you will have an advantage
over this girl.
And who knows probably you will find out characteristics in him as a boyfriend that are not too appealing for you.
GOOD LUCK & GOD BLESS YOU
MERRY CHRISTMAS 7 HAPPY NEW YEAR
ALLIV Z
2006-12-18 00:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Unless you are ready to lose a good friend, because you most likely will. Once he knows how you feel he will never act the same around you again. Think long and hard about whether the loss of his friendship is worth the weight off your shoulders.
2006-12-18 00:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by loza500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is exactly my case!
I knew someone for 6 yrs & had a great feeling for him but ever told him till 2 months ago. he's dating another girl and seems very interested in her, but I pushed myself to tell him that how I felt for him all these years & I did. He was kinda shocked & said nothing was between us & he told me we can still be friends but I couldn't accept that.On the other hand, the best thing was I am free of all stuff in my mind. It's all the matter of fate. Just tell him how you feel, YOU ARE IMPORTANT NOT ANYBODY ELSE...so, tell him(no matter what)...He's not going to turn his face away from you At ALL
You never know maybe their relationship don't work out someday & you have the credit for him to go ahead and be in a relationship with him
2006-12-18 00:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by ELK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immediately, talk to him. Express yourself. You will NOT be mean to your friend in doing this. Try and don't leave things in confusion. If he likes you, nice otherwise he will say that he likes your friend and then you move-on. BUT EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS ...... NOW .... even if you know he likes someone else. GO ......
2006-12-18 00:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by Infinite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go, cause there is a guy out there that may light your fire
2006-12-18 00:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on
2006-12-18 00:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋