How do i tell her....There is this one girl...shes beautiful...we are the best of friends and get along like we could be together forever...i never forget to tell her she's beautiful...but because we are the best of friends i wanna just run up to her and kiss her all over...but i dont wanna tell her that i love her because i dont want her to take it wrong and have awkwardness....shes interested in another guy...i wanna tell her how i feel about her...tell me what you think...and maybe give me some things to say to her that would help me out...thanks to all.
2006-12-17 16:34:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry for confusing everyone...we spend EVERY weekend together...we talk everyday....we talk on the phone EVERY night!!
2006-12-17 16:56:04 · update #1
This is tricky- if you confess your feelings you may lose the comfort level you have w/ her now; if you keep your feelings to yourself you will always wonder what might have been. Even if she likes another guy how can you be sure that she doesn't secretly have an interest in you as well? How does she respond when you tell her she's beautiful? If you flirt w/ her does she flirt back? Sometimes girls like to play hard to get and she may already suspect that you like her. At this point what you don't do might be more effective than what you do do. If I were you I would lay off of the compliments, but don't stop complimenting her all together. Try taking a subtle approach, and just compliment her every once and a while. Women are very in tune w/ a man's actions so she will more than likely pick up on this. If you get any feed-back from her she may be interested. If your attempts go unnoticed then she may not be interested. Either way use your best judgment w/ this. If worse comes to worse and what I have told you backfires, you can blame me. Tell her that you followed some bad advise. If she puts herself in your shoes she will probably be sympathetic considering the dilemma you were facing. Good luck.
2006-12-17 17:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is awsome. It's like a romance movie! lol!!! ^_^ Well, being a girl who knows her best guy friend likes her and is also interested in another guy(i'm interested in the other guy not him)! I know how i think he should come out with it. 1 If you tell her she's beautiful every day then she should know that you like her and she probley already feels guilty about not dating you. If your friends she knows you're a great guy. 2 She probley has at least a little atratiion to you if you're her best friend. 3 Ask her out. Don't be like :"I LOVE YOU! DATE ME!" Be a little more practiced: "I was wondering if you would like to go to ((Insert Place or Event Here)) with me." or something along those lines. Make it romantic when you tell her. "((Whatever her name is here)), I've been meaning to tell you for a long time, but here it is now. I really love spending time around you and I can't get enough of you're ((insert good qualities about her here)) and please... please... *pull out ring for going steady* Will you be my girl?" I WOULD FALL FOR A BOY WHO DID THAT!!!
2006-12-18 00:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Spikey Paws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she makes the world stop and take notice she is everything you could ever want in a woman. Someone that is not afraid to be herself. Someone that is kind, patient and understands the flaws of humanity, someone that your mother tells you about when your little but you thought she was just making it up or that you saw it in some disney movie. She makes you strive to be a better person and you are now that she is in your life. It is with God's grace that you met her and you are the happiest you ever been.
Good luck & God bless :-)
2006-12-18 00:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impress her and maybe she will like you better or take her out on a romantic dinner and tell her that your really interested in her or give her roses and chocolate that says "I Love You" on it or just spill the beans on her and say "I Love You! Your so beautiful I can't help it!" lol good luck :D
2006-12-18 00:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol dude that was the same thing that happened to me... but i told her that i had a huge crush on her like last year.... and that did the trick ..we started talkin more and riding to school together... basicly she was the female version of me.. but sexy and funnier... trully funny....u know most girls are some what funny... this girl was hilarious..my best advice is to grab her and play it cool.... annd try to sneak in the fact that you LOVE her.. and that...... when is she going to realize that your the perfect man she needs... ..if she is anything the way you describe her... you grab on tight to this girl and dont let her slip away ...cuz they dont come around like that...lol ...good luck cassanova
2006-12-18 00:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a woman's prospective, just tell her, and hurry before the other guy snags her! Woman appreciate honesty. Don't "beat arround the bush."
2006-12-18 00:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure it is true and pure love and not just lust. If you feel it is pure love then talk to her about the meaning of pure love, and then explain how you feel for her in that way.
Love= The desire to please the object of love without any selfish motive.
Lust = The desire to enjoy the object of lust for your selfish personal enjoyment.
2006-12-18 00:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by TransformYour.World 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If your in school, slip her a note telling her your true feelings, but make sure YOU are not there when she reads it.
2006-12-18 00:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... decide wthr u really like or love her!!!...and then, do what you must...=j...tell her/write to her if you must...
2006-12-18 00:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by hAiL73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋