i know i really shouldnt care but it is really really bugging me. my girlfriend and i have been going out for about a month. we are both juniors in hs. as a freshman she went out with my best friend for about a month but it didnt get serious. when we first made out, i felt like it seemed like i was her first time but im really not sure. iw ant to know if my best friend did anything with her but i dont think thats something that should be brought up. how do i find out. should i not care. i just feel that it would make our relationship just that much more special if it was both of our first times. thanks guys!!!
2006-12-17 16:31:09 · 10 answers · asked by lenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are worried about nothing. She doesn't ask you where you've been. Don't ask her. It's such a stupid thing to be worried about. You need to enjoy your time with her as much as possible and appreciate the fact that she is with you right now.
2006-12-17 16:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask cause you might get an answer you dont want to hear. if shes no longer doing anything with your best friend besides general friendship then you shouldnt worry. almost every girl you date from high school age on will have made out with, had sex with, or maybe even had a baby with another guy. the only thing you should ask of her is if she has had sex or oral sex with anyone else because of all the stds and aids around. she would have no right to get mad at you for that because you are her boyfriend, you have a right to know. if its just kissing and groping then it doesnt matter. just enjoy
2006-12-18 00:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a guys job to be jealous of her exs. Otherwise she'll feel unwanted. So, don't act really jealous. Just try and beat around the bush till exs r able to be brought up. Then, ask about stuff like making out and kissing and stuff like it is gossip. She'll tell. If she asks you why tell her that you want to know. Tell her that you don't want to feel like you're the only who doesn't know about her. Tell her that it's important to you that you know her past in order to be close.
2006-12-18 00:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Spikey Paws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you knew she went out with him before you started dating her right? What happened in the past is just that. If she did make out with him and it was any good, she would probably have stayed with him, dont you think? seriously. Dont start grilling her, you will push her away. just let it go. she is with you now dont be jealous. jealousy will ruin a relationship faster than any thing. Give her room to learn and love you.
2006-12-18 00:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you shouldn't worry about that. No one likes a jealous boyfriend. So just trust her, and it doesn't even matter if she dated or kissed another guy before you, because now you two are together, she's not with the other guy anymore. So just don't worry about it.
2006-12-18 00:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by ashleyrt1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her you wouldn't care if it was her first or not... If you bring it up and find out she wasn't the first time did it then it will bugg you way more and will jerpordize your relationship
2006-12-18 00:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother !!
OK there's only one way to find out if you really want to know.
Call her ex, alone or with his present girlfriend.
Involve in a threesome or foursome with them.
He would tell you the truth.
2006-12-18 00:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by Platinum 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should think more mature than this.
If u got passion, it should not even matter.
2006-12-18 00:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and ask her. if you guys really care about each other, its something you should talk about.
2006-12-18 00:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-18 00:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋