Because I don't have one. I'm a rather quiet person and because of that, I have very few friends.
2006-12-17 16:29:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Give service willingly and freely to those who are less fortunate. Also, live your life to your standards and don't care what others think about you. eventually, you will find the real you!
2006-12-17 16:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Gigglesngrins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot make people like you. I'm sure that you do have a personality, you're just a little reserved when around otehrs and therefore people can't see it. I recommend that you join a club or group in an area that interests you (for example, a soccer club or a music club), that way you'll be meeting people with similar interests to yours, and it will make conversing a lot less difficult. Try not to worry so much about what others think about you, and just enjoy being around people. also, make sure to do something every day that frightens you ( such a skipping to work instead of walking). That way, you'll learn to push your boundaries and develop stronger self-confidence. Good Luck!!! :)
2006-12-18 00:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't happen overnight. I used to be VERY shy, and my favorite job was behind a cubicle wall where I never had to deal with other people. It has taken about 5 years, of just putting myself in situations where I wasn't comfortable, but I was at least available, to where eventually, that became my preference, and now my job is---sales. Total opposites. The big thing to remember is, you can't have friends if you don't make yourself available to find them. Go to churches, find civic groups to join, any type of organization you believe in. You don't have to talk a lot at first, but eventually people will start talking to you, making it easier for you to find friends. Also, read GOOD books--like, The Difference Maker, by John Grisham, The Success Principle by Jack Canfield, etc. Best wishes.
2006-12-18 00:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read this webpage so you can have more self-esteem and self-confidence. The best personality comes from being happy. This site helps with that and that is more important than having a personality.
http://www.phifoundation.org/happiness.html
2006-12-18 00:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just try to speak up you should approach people be confident you'll make more friends and your personality will shine through
2006-12-18 00:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by uNoUlOvEmE357 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure there's more to you than just being quiet
2006-12-18 00:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by piercedgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋