when should i call? if i even should?

Question

i slept with this guy a little while ago, i let him know i was interested in seeing him agian, he said he was too. he told me to give him a call when i we could meet up to hang out. i did yesterday, beucase i had the night free. he was working and said he'd try to make it over, i got a voicemail later that said he wasnt going to be able to because he had to drive hom early in the morning to help out his dad. and he said to give him a call another time. i'm leaving in a couple days to go home for christmas, and would like to see him beforehand. tomorrow night freed up for me today, so i was thinking about calling him to see if he wanted to come over. should i? or should i wait until a week from now when i get back in town and give him a call then? or should i perhaps send him a message (on facebook) saying i'm going home but would like to see him when i get back? i just wanted to spend the night with him before i went home.

Answer 1

go ahead and call him now.

Answer 2

i would wait till u get back. if you wanted to tell him you were thinking of going home for a few days or what ever, maybe he might jump at the chance to get with you again. You dont want to seem desperate. you dont want him to think that you are at his becon call. play his game, its always better with a little play first.

Answer 3

Dont call him... dont make yourself seem desperate. Leave and then if he calls you while youre over there then it will be even better! He'll see that you are not just waiting around for him!

Answer 4

Follow your instinct and dont waste time, life is too short for foolishness.
U only travel this world once in the flesh.

Answer 5

then spend the night with him.... it's you're life.... don't screw it up...which is probably what you re thinking... I mean since you have to ask that question....i think yo already know the answer.... good luck

Answer 6

in a nice situation