if the feeling is gone.. then there is no point in being in a relationship that has no meaning anymore.. yes you will miss the good times but they will just be presious memories... there is no point in living a lie and leading him on thinking you still feel for him the same.. the longer you lead it.. the more hurt he will feel...
2006-12-17 16:27:27
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answered by baby_ashes_10 1
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thats how i felt with my husband. he was abusive and a drug addict. i caught him with child pornography and was forced to finally leave him because i just had a baby girl and i didnt want him to do it to here. it was so hard because all i could think about was the good times. i made myself relive every horrible thing he did and within a week of being in a deep, deep, deep depression, i became happier that i have been in a long time. you probably think that you cant live without him and thats how i felt. but i promise, if hes as bad as you say he is, you will be much happier but it will be really hard at first. and if he gets with another girl, feel sorry for the girl because shes not going to be happy either. you dont need him. his plan is to make you feel the way you do. you will see once you leave
2006-12-18 00:31:19
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm not saying this to be mean, but you really need to grow up and think about whether or not you should even be in a relationship.
And he'll be with other girls, and you'll get over it.
Just like you'll have good times with another guy and get over the happy times with him.
2006-12-18 00:27:34
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answered by bageno4 2
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well it definatly sounds like your in -love!!! Maybe you are exp difficulties in the relationship? so try this: tell him you want to take some time to think about personal issues : while you have this time meditate on wether you dont like him or something he does. Then try to talk and just see what happens. But I do not think from what it sounds like that you are ready to make a split second decision.
2006-12-18 00:32:33
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answered by cinthia77 1
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what..?? you want to stay with him because of the good times..?? hunni.. it's time to let go of the past and plan for the future.. look for someone new.. and then you won't care if he has someone new also.. and doesnt' that mean that you DO like him..?? why else would you want to keep him to prevent someone else from having him
2006-12-18 00:27:10
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answered by blahh 1
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You don't like him, yet you don't want him to be with another girl? You need to figure out what you truly want. Don't hold onto the past sweetie.
2006-12-18 00:29:02
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answered by xEasilyInfluenced 2
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time to move on girlfriend. You must for your own sake. It's not right to string him along if you don't love him. Be his friend and keep in touch, but don't break his heart. Good luck.
2006-12-18 00:29:28
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answered by Anonymous
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U need to let go...this is immature.
Give him his freedom , u do not own him and u do not like him anymore.
Go find another that u do like and let him live his life in peace.
2006-12-18 00:27:24
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answered by sunflare63 7
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Why don't you want him to get another Girl , if you do not want him, why don't you want for someone else to have him?
2006-12-18 00:27:59
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answered by Tellie 4
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If you don't like him anymore,it's time to go.I know it's hard.But you'll be happy that you did.Now,you're wasting his time and yours.Be strong,girl.
2006-12-18 00:29:39
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answered by noname 3
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