2006-12-17 16:24:10 · 20 answers · asked by jaymegibow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Good night!
2006-12-17 16:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You might rethink what you consider ugly. Women who are good in the inside can change to reflect that on the outside. I was a very heavy (250+) homely person until my husband took a chance on me. I am now a size 2, physically fit, blond that has been stopped and told by total strangers on the street that I am attractive. Men stare any time I walk in to a room. I have been told I have grace and class. To me I am just the same as I was and I don't see it, but I guess others do. What was the motivating factor?? My husband's attention to me when I wasn't very pretty on the outside. Needless to say, he is thrilled with the transformation. So be careful about writing someone off just because she isn't a model type. Get to know her first. You might find a butterfly waiting to emerge.
2006-12-17 16:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by T 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No.
But only as long as you define your measure of attractiveness, so that you don't date women whom others may deem attractive.
In other words, be picky about your women in a way that weeds out the uglies but avoids calls of shallowness.
2006-12-17 16:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mattvayne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I dont think so. And this is coming from a fat girl. You can't help what types of girls you are and are not attracted to. Even though I am overweight, I am not attracted to fat or ugly people either! As long as you respect EVERYONE no matter what they look like, I think you are ok. :)
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-17 16:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by orchidshel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, for not giving them a chance and not giving it a try by getting to know the person first before making your decision. Most of the time, physical attraction is one thing, but not everything. You will find the most beautiful person from the inside not from the outside.
I know it sounds cheesy, but your know..those beauty and all will only last a few years.
2006-12-17 16:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly, I understand you keen therefore far a respectable-looking women, on condition that you do not in effortless words flow for the style varieties who in effortless words have seems to grant you. You look to maintain in mind that. I, myself, do not flow for adult men that i hit upon very overweight/ugly. I even do not have any difficulty with love handles in spite of the undeniable fact that. i merely can't imagine giving my body consistently to someone who i do not discover alluring. in spite of the undeniable fact that, if he has a very sturdy personality he merely seems more beneficial. Lol, I actually have stated alot yet my aspect is this...personality first, seems next, and convinced they do count, so safeguard your self human beings!
2016-11-27 01:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question to ask. Being overweight myself I should say that you are a pig but I do understand that it is hard to be with someone if you are not attracted to that person. 90% of relationships start because you see someone that is good looking and go talk to them. You can not say that you love them because of the person that they are inside when you first see them and are attracted to them cause you don't know them. But you may be missing a great person just because they don't live up to your standards.
2006-12-17 16:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by jweh8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Technically, no. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right? Someone you find ugly and/or fat might be good looking to someone else. Anyway, unless you are friends with someone and grow to love one another, no one is going to date someone they don't find attractive. end of story. That's my position. I mean, you don't become interested in a guy/girl you see unless there's physical attraction there.
2006-12-17 16:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by Dick Richie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think its shallow to call people fat an ugly.
How about less harsh like over weight or unattractive.
& you could be.
but some people just have certain types of people they are attracted too.
But if an amazing over weight women shows interest in you who is perfect for you- shes likes everything youlike shes nice. helpful great job, etc, and you don't like her ONLY bc shes over weight.
Yes then your shallow!
2006-12-17 16:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by T <3 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
NO, YOU NOT SHALLOW, IF THAT YOUR PREFERENCE THEN , BUT AS THEY SAY WHAT GOES AROUND COME
BACK ROUND, AND THE WOMEN THAT YOU ARE DATING
MAKE FEEL THE SAME ABOUT YOU THAT THEY DONT LIKE
SOME THINGS ABOUT YOU AS WELL.
2006-12-17 16:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you are looks are not is what important it is what is on the inside that really counts and I hope you are able to learn that rather quickly.
2006-12-17 17:23:44 · answer #11 · answered by leged56 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋