I know I love this guy...he's absolutely adorable and I love everything about him. But, I just moved this last weekend and I know a long distance relationship won't work right now. I'm going to see him tomorrow for the last time in a while. Should I tell him I love him? Or should I let him tell me? Should I kiss him? Or let him kiss me? I don't want to seem too forward but I just want him to know that I do love and care about him and that I wish I could work things out. And if I do tell him I love him, how should I do it? Advice please, I gotta know what to do tomorrow!
2006-12-17 16:03:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I WOULD JUST LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM
BUT LEAVE THE DOOR OPEN. BECAUSE SINCE YOU ARE
LEAVING FOR A WHILE. YOU DONT WANT TO START SOMETHING THAT YOU AND HE CANT FINISH, IF IT MEANT
TO HAPPEN, THEN THE LOVE THAT YOU FEEL FOR HIM'
WILL GROW IN TO SOMETHING SPECIAL FOR BOTH OF
YOU.
2006-12-17 16:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not initiate anything, it is always so much better when a boy initates and it doesn't sound as if he has been pushing for a relationship and I'll bet any money he isn't sitting around obsessing right now about how to act tomorrow and neither should you. Talk about how much you like the new place, how great everything is, and do not let him kiss you! He needs to ask you for a date to kiss you. All in all, let him take the lead and you won't get hurt. If he isn't interested in you, move onto someone else that is!
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2006-12-18 00:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by rulesgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi OoOjustKi !!!
Please!!!! Do yourself a favor and don't tell him how you think you feel!
You said it yourself, and know that a long distance relationship doesn't work . Why put yourself through that???
Go see him, enjoy the time with him, do not give him any hints on how you "THINK" you feel, and just watch his reactions and actions around you.
When you tell a guy you like him, or worst that you love him, they get vain. And you put yourself in disadvatage right away!!!
Never ever, tell a guy that you are in love with him!!!
I should know.!!! You then feel bad about yourself when things don't go the way you expected. And that feeling is hard to get rid of.
You constantly look for ways on how to make that person feel and treat you the way you'll like to be treated by him, and because, usually the guy doesn't feel the same, he then will lie to you; to make you think that he does.
And that is a very sad situation to be in. I also should know!!!
It is a waste of time. My advise start a new life, in your new place,
if he didn't tell you before, why do you think was that???
If he didn't give you the slightest hint, that he was feeling something more than a friendship for you, while you were living closer, then is on you!!!
Do you want to enter the unknown, dangerous zone???
I don't think so. Right now you have the opportunity that many will like to have start a new life somewhere else. Start from scratch,
not making the same mistakes like in the past.
Enjoy this opportunity and meet new people, go new places, do new things!!! Why attached yourself to a past???
Go visit have fun, and pay attention to yourself.
Often we tend to pay so much attention to the person next to us that we forget we have to much to live for, and do not use all our potential of being ourselves.
take advantage of the fact and go ahead DON"T LOOK BACK !!! Who knows what is awaiting for you, and because your are looking back, you won't be able to see it!!!
GOD BLESS YOU
MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY NEW YEAR
ALLIV Z
2006-12-18 00:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, and that you know you won't see him for a while. That way, you won't ever wonder what could have happened. It sounds like a sad love story, but you have to be honest with yourself, and him.
2006-12-18 00:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. If you care for him as much as you say, keep in touch. Email, IM, whatever is easiest. Maybe visit once a month, if possible. See what happens. Good luck!
2006-12-18 00:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by Koko Loco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont be in a hurry..Slow & steady wins the race.Meet him first then see whts happening & how things moving.
2006-12-18 00:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by s s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him ya love him! he might like it if u seem a little forward.
2006-12-18 00:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if you really love him and let it go naturally from there...
2006-12-18 00:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love someone. if its real keeping in these feelings.... are impossible. if its so much as love... he deserves to know and... i rather be rejected then go through my whole life not telling someone i loved them when i should have beforei never get the chance again. do wat you think is right
2006-12-19 21:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ditto Rachel's response.
2006-12-18 00:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋