Ex and I are still friends, but of course as much as we still care for each other, she is in a relationship right now and just wants friendship yet expects me to just be friends when I still want her back. She won't give me an answer if we will never be together again when asked. Yet there is times I have given space and she reils me back in, but no affection, just friendship. My head says to move on, butu my heart won't let go. And she thinks if I would just be my ole chipper self as before we broke up, be happy for the days I spend with her. that we could possibly have a chance. So I hang on, and try to understand her. Yet she then gets upset when I cross the line and doesn't understand me and how I feel. Am I being foolish and blinded by my love for her and waiting? Should I wait, if not how do I move on without hurting her or making it feel I'm giving up? I do love her, but I feel its a ride that keeps going in circles.
2006-12-17 15:56:34 · 5 answers · asked by Patsy Cline 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your behind to follow your head, and leave that relationship behind also!
2006-12-17 16:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by jrneytime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a sort of boyfriend for four years of my teenage life. He was a sort of boyfriend because he claimed to love me and we'd be together at least once a month, but were never exclusive. I'd watch him date other girls and I'd date other guys to make him jealous, although he never got jealous. I thought back then that he was the one. However I have since learned that "the one" will be the person who wants you just as badly as you want them. My advice to you is to stop pretending that she will come around, because she won't. The sooner you move on the sooner you will find someone who wants you as much as you want them.
2006-12-17 16:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lachelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
If she trul love you she must have not left you in the first place..ok if she did..she must have not found other person in her life.I know how tough & hard it will be to get out & to forget things..but u have to..try to meet new person & try to enagage in different hobies if u have.It will be good if you forget & stop talking to her or else try to maintain friendshi only..but nothng more than that,U takecare.Bye
2006-12-17 16:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by s s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I just limp it.
I hope I get 100 thumbs down for this answer.
2006-12-17 16:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from them, delete their number. try not to do anything stupid when you drunk and think of something else.
2006-12-17 15:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋