2006-12-17 15:34:05 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nice bait ...... the question I mean...
and well a 14 yo.... is not considered by law to be mature enough to make that decision for themselves.... and the law will deal very heavily with anyone who has sex with a 14yo...... so if you do it by all means do it openly so it is easier for the police to charge you and make the charges stick...
2006-12-17 15:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - that is completely wrong and called PAEDOPHILIA. No matter how mature a 14 year old may seem, they are still children and are probably not fully developed yet. If you are the 20 year old in question you should forget about it and look for someone your own age, and if you can't just move on then you need to get professional help before it becomes a serious problem. Besides all the moral issues it is against the law anyway, it's called statutory rape.
2006-12-17 15:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's ok if you want to risk imprisonment ,,,, It's called statutory rape you know ,,,, I'm assuming the 14 year old is the female ,,,, This person is a child molester ,,,, sexual predator and at the very least a pervert ,,,, I have a daughter the same age and it's a lucky thing for someone your age that he doesn't have designs like that on my daughter ,,,, I would render this individual incapable of copulation for the rest of his natural life ,,,, There are plenty of fish in the pond ,,,, Are you so emotionally insecure that you can't get with some one your own age ,,,,,? You need to back off of this one and rethink what you are doing ,,,, It could wind you up in a place where you'd get all the sex you want ,,,, You wouldn't even have to ask for it ,,,, I'm kind of beginning to wonder if even your question isn't illegal and you could go to prison for just asking that
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2006-12-17 16:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. If you are caught with a minor you could get into serious trouble. If sex is what you want, look for a partner who is closer to your age. But if you really like this 14 yr old, then you need to be patient and allow her to grow up before you have an open sex life .
2006-12-17 15:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. A 14 year old is still a child. There is something seriously wrong with a 20 year old that would find any interest other than physical in a 14 year old child.
2006-12-17 15:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by lilmisstickletoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The 14 year old isn't mature enough to have sex, even if she looks and acts as though she is. If the 20 year old wants to have sex with other adults, that is fine. He should protect the feelings and well being of the 14 year old, and be considerate of any lovers he has as well. "Open" is fine, "selfish" isn't so great.
2006-12-17 15:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not okay. I do not think a 20 year old should be allowed to date anyone below the age of 18 years. You see at that particular age, their hormones are developing and creating emotions that their body are finding difficult to handle. The 20 years old can date a 30 year old coz his brain and body is prepared for it.
2006-12-17 15:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by ngina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No if a 20 yr old likes a 14 year old something is way the **** wrong. And most places that is considered rape.
2006-12-17 15:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by undercovernudist 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well let me tell you what i think about this question here.. if good didnt want you to be with someone that young he would of never let you meet her or him... if you love each other or even like each other i guess thats cool.. AGE IS JUST A NUMBER.... in the states it might be a illegal but you should fight for what you believe in no matter what if you are 18 or not it is not going to make a difference in the minds of other people that think that is still gross just because she is 18 and now you are 24 people are still going to tell you thats gross and crap and tell you it is not right but.. but seriously god let oyu too meet and have feeling for each other so you guys should just live you life the way that you want to and have fun while you are doing it... ENJOY YOUR LIFE TOGETHER.... my opion though..
2006-12-17 15:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by wendy v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaaah NO, your 20. Does statutory rape mean anything to you. You are pushing your luck, unfortunately you need to wait until the youngster is 18 at least. Don't risk wanting a night of passion with jail time. You need to seek counseling especially if you had to ask that question. This appears as if you have pedophile tendencies. You need to check yourself.
2006-12-17 15:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a serious problem to even ask that question. Sounds like you need help before you do something that is going to get you into alot of trouble.
Do you know what they do to pedophiles in prison? Think about it. She is a child and you are an adult.
2006-12-17 20:33:48 · answer #11 · answered by Henry H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋