I haven't seen my ex boyfriend in almost a year and he wants to "meet up" with me next week. I'm so shocked and confused as to why he wants to see me. We only dated for a month and it was a very innocent relationship, we never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. Neways, he would still contact me on msn even though HE was the one who ended it. A few days ago I logged on msn and he said "we should meet up if I have time". I said sure, and now we're meeting up next week. It's Christams break and he said he's gonna go to Hong Kong on Dec. 30th and travel for 3 weeks. So why does he wanna see me after one year and especialy before he goes on his trip??? I'm kinda happy but kinda worried too, could this be some sort of trick?
2006-12-17 15:33:20 · 13 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plain and simple, he misses you. He has probably been thinking about you for a while, but never got the chance or the guts to ask you. Now it seems like the time is right and he just went for it. Well, good luck and be happy!:)
2006-12-17 15:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by Pamela Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-27 01:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by rocca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he misses u, maybe he wants to remain friends which is why he wants to see u b 4 he leaves to travel because u mean something to him.
So whatever u do just do expect anything,just meet up with him and don't let him talk u into anything u don't want to do.stay on graud and wish him a safe trip
2006-12-17 15:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trick? What kind of trick?
Did it ever occur to you that there is a possibility that he has had a change of heart in the way he feels about you.
That old saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" might just a fit in perfectly here.
Absolutely worth finding out, don't you think?
2006-12-17 15:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by Gnome 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Yuri Orlov: There are two types of tragedies in life. One is not getting what you want, the other is getting it."
once you have someone close, you will always long for it. sometimes it's better to deal with the longing than to give in.
ex boyfriends wanting to meet up suddenly after a year usually means hook up. sure there are the ones that aren't like that, but the majority are. just steer clear. you don't need to fall back into that.
all anyone deserves is one chance. if they can't keep you around the first time, and you come back, its just teaching them they can do what they want to you.
2006-12-17 15:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by traumahawk3345 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some sort of trick ,,,, Absolutely ,,,, You are a challenge to him ,,,, You have something he wants and he's willing to do or say anything to talk you into giving it to him ,,,, You did say he's the one that broke if off in the first place and he probably did that because he realized you aren't putting out and you were a waste of time ,,,, He just might be thinking about giving it another shot ,,,, If he broke it off once then why should he want to try it again ? ,,,,It's because guys are tenacious and they figure that they aren't out anything giving it one more shot and it's always worth a try ,,,, Guys are good actors you know even up to and including tears ,,,,, Be on your guard with this guy ,,,, Stick to your guns on this ,,,, Don't let him talk you into anything YOU don't want to do and don't let him talk you into anything HE wants you to do either ,,,, You just might find he's letting his glands do his thinking for him ,,,,
2006-12-17 16:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm gonna answer your first question since everybody else is answering your second.
Happiness comes from within, not without. Happy people are generally happy in spite of what goes on around them, not because of it.
I hope that its because he wants to test the waters again, but you can have a happy ending even if he doesnt.
2006-12-17 15:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by Clear thinker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i honestly think he doesnt wanna get back together, but maybe he does. i think he just wants to be friends and meet up as friends. so yeah. just be happy and go meet him as "FRIENDS" and act cool. feed off of his attitude and signals. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-17 15:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he regrets breaking it and wants to have a more fulfilling relationship witchu
2006-12-17 15:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by JO 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If in doubt, do not go out
2006-12-17 15:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋