I met a girl and she gave me her number and I gave mine. We talked for 3 hours one night. And two days after she phoned me but unfortunately I was not at home. So I gave her a call the next day and we talked for 1 and half hours. We talked really good until she mention she's not interested in having a relationship because she'll be going to college. But she like having a friend for the time being. She was thinking of finding somebody and settle down after school. What that suppose to mean? Does she likes me? Is there something special going on? Or just plain nothing? But I could call her and she'll be phoning me. What do you think guys? What should I do?
2006-12-17 15:26:59 · 10 answers · asked by Confuse_Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We talked for 1 and a half hours tonight, should I phoned her again tomorrow? Because I was thinking I might loose the momentum, you know, I don't want to be look too clingy. What do you think guys? By the way, she seemed to be real tired today because she told me she went out last night. Should I phone her or should I wait to her phone call instead?
2006-12-17 15:40:48 · update #1
I think you had a couple of phone calls and there really isn't a helluva lot else to conclude at this point. Just keep talking to her and get to know her.
2006-12-17 15:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to be your friend and has wisely put aside being in a serious relationship because her priorities are that she get an education and get a good job before findind a man to be serious with. I think this is a good decision because a serious relaionship is nothing but a distraction from her studies. be a good supportive friend to her and when or if she's ready to move to something more serious she'll remember how you were there for her and how supportive you were to her.
2006-12-17 23:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get too involved unless you are nearby when she is at college. If she doesn't want to have a relationship in college, I don't blame her. That is her last chance to be young and crazy. I think you should just tell her how you feel and see how she reacts, maybe if she really likes you, she may calm down a little when she gets to school.
2006-12-17 23:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she likes you but does not want to be committed. She is probably thinking that she does not want to be tied down in a long distance relationship while she is away at college. She wants to keep her possibilities open. Think about it why would you take sand to the beach? So she is leaving you for a possibility when she is not in college.
2006-12-17 23:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Audrey : 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she likes you but she is a realist and knows that she does not want a long distance relationship
2006-12-17 23:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is just lonely and she need somebody to talk to and she chooses you because she trusts you but that doesn't completely means that she likes you..all you have to do is wait until she is giving you signs that she really likes you..that's all i can say
2006-12-17 23:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So either she wants to be friends or friends with benefits. Try making a move and then you'll know which kind.
2006-12-17 23:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by Clueless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say "yes u may stay wuth me" she likes u alot have a relationship and see what happens k, luck.
2006-12-17 23:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by matthew w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she fancies an idea of having a partner (or bf-to-be) but it may not mean she likes you
2006-12-17 23:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa let me think "yes"
2006-12-17 23:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋