I have been dating this guy for a little bit over a year. We live together and we just don't communicate like we used to. No matter what I say he always makes it turn into an argument. If he's not sleep, it's work. We barely ever spend time with each other. I want out because I am tired. I don't know how to leave because I love him. Not to mention he takes care of all my bills because I am just open a business and it's in beginning stages. He doesn't like to talk to me about anything anymore. Why would he all of sudden change on me?
2006-12-17 15:17:42 · 6 answers · asked by ms_educator 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he probably resents the financial strain of your new business.
2006-12-17 15:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're only hanging on by a thread. I know you said he is taking care of your bills, but I would seriously start thinking about becoming more independent. You don't need a man for financial support. If he doesn't want to begin communicating on some level, I would end it. He either has someone else that he's interested in, or the relationship is slowly dying or both. Been there,done that myself and it's difficult. In my case, when we quit communicating, the relationship was already DEAD. I kept wasting all this time trying to make it work, and it was all for naught.
Good luck to you - it is a tough situation to be in!
2006-12-17 23:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny A_331 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is taking care of the bills. Plan on the next move with your new business and then make a move and leave him. I know this is easier said then done. Hope it works out for you. Some men resent the fact that a woman can do independent things. You don't need someone like that.
2006-12-17 23:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre problem is just about miscommunication, lack of bonding time, but solely if i review your statement, you dont love him, if you ever did, or if he still loves you you could still work it out, but i dont think both of you are willing to still make things work, you only stay there because he can pay your bills ,you dont love him stop lying,
since you want to be smart and all just take advantage, you dont really have to make it really hard for you, you need his money so pretend everything is fine, if you talk to him, just talk to him about the business, about the positive side of the business, stay calm i know its bad to tell you to use him, but be intelligent, i know you dont love him anymore, and if ever someone showed up who also had the means and who loves you and adores you you would leave him, as much as i would like to tell you that you should be independent, im being realistic, concentrate on the business, let it prosper and when it does, pay the man in return and get out of there and get a real life
2006-12-17 23:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be one of 2 things: (1) he's lost all interest in you and the relationship, but doesn't know how to tell you...or....(2) he is seeing someone else and uses your arguments to hide the guilt he will be feeling later. If you want out, take the first step, find yourself another place to live, once you're settled in, sit him down and tell him that you need to go over the debts both of you accumulated and divide them equally or at least take over the ones you made. Good luck!!
2006-12-17 23:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by AngelEyes In SF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email me,let's discuss this.
2006-12-17 23:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋