he seemed to be interseted than all of a sudden stopped until i sent him a racy email he responded but now hes doing the same thing again hes really sweet and he first made the initial contact hes adoctor and lives in another state from me aside from the racy emails do i stand a chance at something developing or should i give up the last time was about almost two weeks he tried im me i really think hes interseted or is he what do i do stop emailng him or should i give him time to think about me?
2006-12-17 14:59:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doctors are busy but remember who initiated the contact. He probably talks to more women than just you, it's not really safe to meet people on line. I would move on and look elsewhere if I were you. Funny how he suddenly has time to respond to racey emails but one those stopped he's "busy" again. He's probably a pervert who just wants sex, and for all you know he may not even really be a doctor. It's easy to lie about yourself online. Good luck
2006-12-17 15:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by The_Game 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first things first you said that he seemed interested at first then he stopped ,then you sent him a racy email which he replied to quick smart,a couple of emails later he stopped again.honestly let this one go cause he is just not that into you ,don't waste your tI'me on a guy (even if he is a doctor) who wont even email you until you give him some racy email for him to reply to.then there is the fact that if he is really a doctor then he could be really busy and he has no time to spare at the moment. so either you give him about a week or two to email you or you just move on to others who im sure will email you back(unless there doctors too). good luck
2006-12-17 15:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. On line dating is risky. You don't know who is on the other end of that computer. They could be doing this to everyone. Guys only think with one head. HINT: It's not the one on top of their shoulders. Be careful about talking to people on line. You may think this person is nice, but are they just being nice to you because they want something? They can pretend to be anyone they want besides their real self. Maybe he's a doctor or maybe he's a con, or maybe a rapist. Get to be friends with someone before you start thinking about dating. Think about it. I think you know the answer you just want to hear it. Don't email or talk to him. Don't send him anything racy because obviously that's what he is looking for. Many of these guys are married. Don't get involved. He doesn't have time to think about you when there's so many others out there.
2006-12-17 15:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by a10cowgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 21:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by hertling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello this is the female of this ok
id like to say that i was almost the same circle u were in hun i met my husband now on a local website and i wanted to just give up when he sort of cancelled on me when he was suppose to come up in october of this year bc we started talking 8/22/06 and were suppose tomeet on 10/16/06 but didnt bc somethng came up on his end so i said ok but in my heart i said tough it out hes worth the wait so then we postponed it to january 26,2007 but luckly for the good lord above my stepdad is a truck driver broiught me down there to him (georiga) and im n tennessee
to meet him on december 8 ,2006 and now were happily married and are extermly happy
so this my adivce dont give up on something if u really want it bc u might not ever have that chance again
2006-12-17 15:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl i've had deals like that happen before but u cant get wrapped up out here cuz u dont know the guy.. i would find me somemore people to chat with.. i mena if the dude mails u or ims u whatever then i would just be casual and chit chat.. i wouldnt let him think that ur all heart broke over this stupid net game..
Good LUCK
2006-12-17 15:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doctors are very busy and have little time for a social life. If he is in another state and you have not met, I say forget it and move on. Should you meet and fall in love etc, you have a lonely life to look forward to as doctors are gone much of the time.
2006-12-17 15:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by Patricia S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't give up completely.. sometimes people get to busy to respond all the time and some people can't be on the computer all the time because of work and other things, just keep him as a friend for now :) :) :)
2006-12-17 15:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like things were going too slow for him so he gave up til you sent him the email... He just wants sex by the sounds of it...
But if that's your thing, go for it
2006-12-17 15:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by DaN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably found someone he likes better. i wish i could say it nicer but move on.
2006-12-17 15:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by klixmaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋