I’ve been dating this wonderful guy for 5 months now. He is relocating for a great job offer. It is about 3.5 hrs away and he wants me and my daughter to move with him. Do you think this is too soon to pack up and move with him?
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2006-12-17 14:57:06 · 8 answers · asked by melodysea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you do not go and drag your kid into that situation after only FIVE months. That's not a lot of time.
You are suppose to be setting an example for your young daughter.
Also, it sounds kind of desperate.
Don't you have a job where you are now?
Does your daughter go to a school in the place where you live now and have friends?
Also, be careful. Sexual predators prey on single lonely women with young kids.
I'm just saying, you need to date him longer before uprooting yourself and kid for him.
2006-12-17 15:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when it's right and with a child involved you really have to consider how it could effect her and if this is what you want from this relationship. Really talk things out before you make the move, how life will be, money, responsibilities, expectations. Moving in is always an adjustment and takes time for everyone involved to "settle in" to the new routine. Good luck!
2006-12-17 23:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time frame with true love, you could know him five months or five years, it really doesn't matter. What does matter is; is 5 months really enough time to trust someone with your child and the emotional roller coaster ride your daughter will be taking with you, especially a susceptible young girl. You need to move slow. Why not keep it a long distant relationship awhile? Give yourself time for him to know you and your daughter and for you to check him out thoroughly. You can never be to careful these days. A good man will respect your decision.
2006-12-17 23:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to move in with him? Its a big deal for you especially you have a daughter already. Think carefully. Will you move in anyways even if he isnt relocating? Moving in together based on the reason of he is relocating isnt a good idea.
You should move in when you both are ready and you want it...
Good luck
2006-12-17 23:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it feels right move with him. Just make a plan so that if things do not work out for you that you and your girl have a way to get bak where you have left from. Also talk with him about this so that he knows it is a concern of yours. Put some money up in an accout so that you can get it to go home if things get bad.
2006-12-17 23:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering the baggage you have, you better jump on that offer asap.
2006-12-17 23:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
iv been with my bf since september and im alway at his house i practicly live there and have no idea how i keep ending up at his place.
2006-12-17 23:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move in after the wedding day! that's the only way to do it!
2006-12-17 23:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by katwoman_2911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋