my ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago , we went out for 6 months before, when we broke up it was an argument that set us off. afterward she told me that we're incompatible, and nothing could happen between us again. She was mad, but she said once she forgive me she eventually wanna be good friend. Now she's msging me everyday, talking about random stuffs, she's writiing final now, so once she's done, i dunno if i should ask her out again or not? i love her very much though. I'm sure tht she missed me, but i dunno if she wants to be back together or just using me.. i tried to be cold, but eventually i break down ... so please help
2006-12-17 14:56:39 · 13 answers · asked by tele t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her come to YOU. You even said that she just wants to be friends. If she wants more she will tell you. If you keep pushing the issue, it's just gonna' push her farther away from you (which is fine if that's what you want).
Let her be. Hang out & be friends. If she wants more she will tell YOU. It's called "communication".
Don't be a stalker!
:)
2006-12-17 14:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by Boodie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months relationship is a short one. If you were told you are not compatible use some pride and common sense. Do remain friends but talk to this person very sporadic (not frequent) have other female friends. The best relationships take time and start as good friends 1st with no sex at all until you feel emotional attached and connected based on sharing your true self slowly. I am a woman and I do know how some females can manipulate, use and abuse the opposite sex. Love yourself and remind yourself that if you love yourself you will attract the right person for you. This chick may start appreciating you if you play hard to get and give her little importance. Stay busy, learn something new and stay open for other possibilities. You will be fine. You always learn & become wiser the next time.
2006-12-17 15:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out again if you really love her. The worst that can happen is that she give you the horrid 'I just want to be friends' line.
The best that happens is that the two of you get back together and have a long and happy relationship.
Break-ups in the heat of an argument are generally passion based - the I love you and hate you kind of thing.
If she's been texting you every day, it seems like she does miss you, so I would go for it.
Ask her out when you know she's available, and go from there.
-dh
2006-12-17 15:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that before renewing the relationship that you talk out the problem that broke you up and see how you would both hndle it or a similar problem if it came up again. If you can't come to an agreement on how you settle differences without fighting then either one or both of you are too immature to have a lasting relationship.
2006-12-17 15:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by aiguyaiguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is what i have to say to this not trying to be mean or anything ok.. i know plenty of girls that are like this and i dont like to see people get hurt in the end.. but from just hearing what you have said it is going to end in a way that you dont want it to end.. i think that you should talk to her see what she wants to do but just dont set your self to far out there that you cant bring your self back in.. we all know that you probally do love her but just remember if it is worth it or if it is true love then it will happen the way that you want it to happen ok.. but just talk and see what goes from that and keep your boundries dont set your self up to be used or beat up again..
2006-12-17 15:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by wendy v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her a lot then yes ask her out again. if she is using u, u will probably be able to tell to tell, if you really miss her ask her out again. If she is messaging you all the time then she probably wants u to ask her out. i hope this helped.
2006-12-17 15:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by Nice girls finish last 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you wait couple of more days to sees how she acts.
If she hints on getting back together, than do it.
If she's just being nice to stay in touch as friend. Then maybe not.
2006-12-17 14:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by knownothing 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stalk her. Scare her into never leaving you again.
2006-12-17 15:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since she broke up then make her beg u back
or tell her to pick a number
2006-12-17 14:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
muster every ounce of confidence and ask her out again.
2006-12-17 14:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by applejuice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋