my son is 19 he met girl 16 i dont aprove and want nothing to do with that relationship or give rides girl had sex with my son first night meeting she sounds lil mentally ill no one wants her even her mother kicked out 3 places in 2 wks really wild always in trouble with no regard well recently i over heard convo thatshes been sneeking her cousins car in middle of the night while cousin sleeping or shes babysitting cousins kids waits till asleep then crusies in car she aparently tried find my house last night at 3 am ran out gas asked stranger for money and to use his phone call my son but he was asleep she called today mad saying shes gona steal car again and is coming tonight at 230 what should i do about this situation if i call her cousin she might not beleive me even tho i recorded her or she may confront girl and shed say im lier or she was playin w my son and or cause alot drama threaten me or my son or tell him i listened or recorded i only do it cuzz hes not bein respons/lies
2006-12-17 14:50:12 · 10 answers · asked by wh1te_diamond06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO YOU KNOW WHAT A PERIOD IS, LADY?
Your son is past the age of consent. Cut the cord, you are too involved in your adult kid's life.
2006-12-17 14:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok seems to me that your in this relationship a little to much, your son is old enough to make his own decisions. Also your saying she had sex with him the first night meeting him. Which means your son had sex with HER the first night meeting her. Don't just blame the girl eventhough that's your "baby" he's a grown man. She's young she's bound to make stupid decisions, she's not your responsibility and the fact that "no one" wants her may be the reason for these outbursts. So instead of pushing her away and trying to get her away from your son, try being kinder to her and place yourself in her shoes for a day, also try telling her to be safer cause asking a stranger for money and using his phone is not a really smart thing to do. Don't call the cops, and be one of those petty mothers.
2006-12-17 15:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by xxdelicious_l1psxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have a talk with your son he might not listen but you have to let him know this girl is not good for him and would only cause him trouble ask the girl to leave your house if she does come over tonight at whtaver time she sais she would just let her know you dont want to get in tourble or get her in trouble and to go back home and return the car because its not hers. If she decides not to do that, then speak with her cousin but dont call the cops it would make the situation worse, people getting arrested isnt a good approach to anything. Communication is key if you have to speak with her relatives or legal guardian then do so.
2006-12-17 14:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her never to call you or be around you again or you're calling the cops. as for your son, it's his choice whether to date her or not but tell him you disapprove.
if she's stealing cars, well that's a legal issue and you might choose to call the cops and report her for that. if she's only 16 and doing that she really needs some help getting her life straightened out.
2006-12-17 14:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by painfully_average 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is tough. 1st is if she comes to your house then yes call the police and report it as a disturbance especially if it is 230 am. do not try to stop your son you will make her more appealing and push him away-let her own behavior do that and stand by him and support him no matter what
2006-12-17 14:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by Maureen R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfull he's 19, u cant controll him unless he lives in ur house, and if he does, tell him to act responsible or ur kicking him out, as for the girl tell him to take that shyt somewhere else or get out.....dont involve the police this is a family thing
2006-12-17 14:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by IMSOVICIOUS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the age of consent where you are??? if she is over it then let the police know -- if the girl is that bad they will know about her and may even be on hand at 0230 --- she is in a stolen car after all --- not a lot else that can be done i suspect --- you have my best wishes
2006-12-17 14:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ME PERSONALLY, I THINK YOU SHOULD STAY UP TONITE AND HER HAVE IT. HIM TOO. SHE NEEDS TO LEARN HOW TO RESPECT HERSELF AND YOUR HOUSE. YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR SON THAT AS WELL. IF HE CAN LEAVE AND COME IN YOUR HOUSE AT ANYTIME OF THE MORNING THEN HE NEEDS TO START PAYING SOME BILLS AT THE HOUSE! BUT IF I WERE YOU I WOULD STAY UP AND WAIT ON HER TO GET TO YOUR HOUSE AND TELL DO NOT COME OVER HERE AT THIS TIME ANYMORE OR THE NEXT TIME I WILL CALL THE COPS.
2006-12-17 14:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by ken's princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres something called sentences. try to figure it out sometime. it would help other people figure out wat your saying.
just tell him to break up with her or something
2006-12-17 14:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by whatever21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...someone cant spell
2006-12-17 14:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋