I really like this guy but he is a really BIG dork what do i do?
i am very confused of wat i have 2 do cuz every1 makes fun of him n im the only1 who defends him n ppl r kinda making the idea i like n i keep saying no. he already asked me out like 5 time but i keep saying that i will tell him later. should i say yes or no? (I CANT HAVE A BF)
2006-12-17 14:47:28 · 32 answers · asked by jjimenez93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can't have a boyfriend, you'll have to say no, and he'll have to understand. You can still tell him you like him, though. Big dorks can be real sweethearts.
2006-12-17 14:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you "can't have a BF), tell him you'd rather remain friends right now. If something developes later when you CAN have a boyfriend you'll have a better relationship.
Who cares if he's a dork. If YOU like him, then don't worry about what everyone else thinks. Sounds like the people you hang out with are very shallow.
2006-12-17 14:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by redneckgardendiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, why can't you have a bf?
That aside, go out with him if you like him. Who cares what others think, its your life, and caving in to peer pressure is lame. Stand up for yourself like you stand up for him.
Its good for you, and it will probably be good for him. If you really can't have a bf then tell him that, but since going out on dates seems like an option accept his invitation.
It sounds like you two would make a cute couple, and just because he's a dork is no reason not to go out with him. Again assuming you do like him.
The dorks of the world make the best friends and romantic partners, and they're loyal, not likely to cheat on you.
Just my .01
-dh
2006-12-17 14:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Face up to the fact that you like a dork. Excuse me, BIG dork. It's o.k.
What they don't tell you is that even cool guys, get married, have kids and turn into dorks.
It's not so bad once you accept it.
Besides, you know what they say, "Once you go dork..."
2006-12-17 15:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by Engineer Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you have a bf? You don't have to sleep with him or anything. Anyway, who cares if he's a dork? No offense, but your friends sound like terrible people.
Now you ask if you should say yes or no. OF COURSE YOU SHOULD! You're stringing him along, and it probably hurts his feelings! If you don't want to go out with him or cannot, you should really tell him so he can deal with it. But with you telling him "maybe" or whatever, he's probably a nervous wreck! Good night!
2006-12-17 14:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK you sound like me....A WALKING CONTRADICTION! If you can't have a b/f then tell him that. But if that's like a lenient rule type of thing, and you really like him GO FOR IT. Who cares if hes a dork or if your friends don't like him. If he makes you happy, then go for it. What if this is your one true chance to be happy and you miss it? Or maybe it isn't your on true chance... but do you really want to take the chance and not be with him and miss out on "Mr. Right?" IDK Hunni but I think you know what you want to do inside. Follow your heart and trust yourself a lil more. I promise you'll be fine no matter what you do.
2006-12-17 14:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well eventually you are going to realize you cant always please the people around you if you want to be with him and you like him give it a try who cares if people think he is a dork as long as you are with him and makes you happy that is all that matters!
2006-12-17 14:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to accept the fact that you like nerds. Nothing wrong with that. Don't go through your life allowing others to influence your choices on who you love. If you spend you life going by what other say and attempting to find the right person for all of them, you may find yourself with the wrong person for you or alone some day.
-NmD!
2006-12-17 14:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't have a boyfriend, what is the dilemma?
If you are not worried about that, then I'd have to say, who cares what everyone else thinks? If you are as shallow as they are, then make of him too and find someone as "cool" as you. Otherwise, stand up for yourself and choose to be with the person YOU want to be with, not who everyone else thinks is a cool person.
2006-12-17 14:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation as you.
i was going out with a really ugly guy that was made fun of a lot...my friends didnt see what i saw in him.
if you cant date, tell him nicely and point out that he has a great personality.
if you can, say yes if you like him. who cares what ppl think??? its your opinion that counts!!!
looks arent everything so go for it and let everyone make fun of you if they have nothing better to do....your the one whod have the boyfriend, rite?
2006-12-17 14:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋