Last wednesday I met a great guy. We hung out together the whole night at a party, and after it was over, he blew off another holiday party to take me to a club. At the end of the night (very late) he hugged me and got my number. He called Saturday around noon and left a message asking if I wanted to get coffee or hang out again, and he left me his home number and cell number for me to call. I called him back Saturday night (on his home phone) around 9:00 b/c I'd been out doing stuff all day Sat. I left him a message saying that I had a great time and yeah, I'd like to get together again. He hasn't called back Sunday all day. Am I doing something wrong here? Did I do anything wrong? I haven't dated in a while, and I really like this guy based on all the hours we spent talking Wed. night. Sorry to be so unsure of myself here, but do you think he'll call me back?
2006-12-17 14:46:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You made the connection and let him know you were interested, so just wait for him to call you. He could be busy, it's the holiday season, football has been on literally all day. His actions show he is interested in you...so just give him a little space. It sounds like you have done everything right. Nothing is wrong here, guys have their own time schedule.
Best of luck!
2006-12-17 14:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by TV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be busy and doesn't have the time to call you back. Give it a couple more days and see what happens. Don't obsess about it because the more you think about it, the more you'll get paranoid. Just move on and meet other people while you're still unsure of his intentions. There are a lot of other guys out there who would be happy to be with you.
2006-12-17 14:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like love at first sight. I think she's interested, but wants to keep things slow. Don't rush a relationship. Maybe the reason why shes not answering is because shes busy. It depends on the hw or things she has to do. If you're tht worried, talk to her, maybe txt her again if she doesn't answer, then when you see her again, ask her wat happened. It may seem alittle clingy, but u just wanna know the truth.
2016-05-23 03:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key here is to relax. It is sunday and most pf us fellas have been doning something related to football friends and fun. He'll probably call tomorrow or the next day.
The key is to leave it alone. You left 1 msg. Whatever you do, DON"T call again. Thats desperation personified.
Send a text in a few days if you don't hear from him.
After that, its done.
good luck
2006-12-17 14:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by AgentZero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont sweat it, he should get back to you...the holidays are coming up, so there's a good chance hes been a little busy. Just give him some time, and try not to be stalkerish and call him 20 times a day.
2006-12-17 14:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by The Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he'll call you back. If he is anything like I was, he's pretty busy...but I'm sure he wants to get back to you, especially if you two had a good time the other night. Good luck.
2006-12-17 14:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the holiday season. I'm sure you both are busy with family friends and gifts, give him a week and call again.
2006-12-17 14:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont panic just yet! It's only been one day! Don't call him again but expect a call on Tuesday ..... its like the guys three day rule or something!
2006-12-17 14:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by J S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-17 14:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by Matt D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he'll call u back, dun worry. but in the meantime, u continue with ur daily life routine.. the longer u wait, it'll just make u feel more restless. right dear?
2006-12-17 15:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by Juzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋