I need advice plz?

Question

Ok so i kinda like this guy. My dad freaks out when i get boyfriends.
I dont kno if my friends think this guy is cool and they dont kno tht I kinda like him. I never like to ask a guy out. I always wait till they ask me to be their gf cuz im so afraid of rejection. I want to kno how to find out if he likes me/ show him tht i like him without saying nething to ne1 about it. thx. :D

Answer 1

take a chance, this is torturing to you

good luck though

Answer 2

Well sweetie I'm the same way, I feel, correction I know that I am a very attractive young lady, but I will never approach a man, due to being afraid of rejection. I think you should flirt with him just a little bit, u know make a sarcastic, but cute comments towards him, this usually works for me. Forget what ur friends think, you have to do what makes u happy.

Answer 3

You need to reach out, if you can get over your shyness, - reach ing out through a friend is always a good way to do it. That way you don't have to directly deal with the akward first meeting, but you can at least get an idea of whether or not he would like to meet you , if he thinks you're cute, - etc.

He may not ever have noticed you before, - so at least you now will be on his radar.The other thing is that he may be shy too, and have an interest in you, and not know how to approach you.

I know this because I was secretly in love with a girl in High School - but thought that she was too popular, and too pretty, and just too "much" to ever consider going out with someone like me - I mean I was OK looking, had a good build, and a car, and a job, and played sports, and was fairly popular, and was funny, and got good grades, - etc, - But I thought she was a "Goddess", so I just kind of worshipped her from afar.

We met about 5 years after high school, quite by accident, at a club in a city about 1000 miles away from our home town. I was Invited by the Band in the club to sing a song , (I knew the Band and actually had been in a band with 2 of the members of the band that was playing in the club that night) Anyway they asked me up to sing a request that they could play the music for, but no one in the group knew all the words to the song which was a simple Ballad called "Annie's Song", I was happy to do the lyricswhen they asked and a couple of other "oldies" slow tunes to inish the set. Then I took my bows, thanked the guys in the band, left the stage, and was headed back to the bar, when I literallay walked into the arms of the most beautiful sweet smelling youg woman I had ever laid eyes on - in five long years .

She kept saying my name over and over again, and I kept saying her's in a questioning tone: "Peggy?" "Peggy?" (I could'nt hardly see for the glare of the spotlights on the stage had all but destroyed my night vision, and the lighting in the night club was fairly sub-dued. Anyway here was my dream girl - literally in my arms, and as it turned out she was there with girl friends, she was had just finished college there, and they were out celebrating. Well we talked late into the night, and I found out that most of the time though High School she had a crush on me - but she just was too embarassed to ask me out - she wanted so bad to be my girl friend she just couldn't stand it. She even left me love poems in my locker, and in my car. Which I got but thought were from this "mooney eyed" freshman that always seemed to be be following me around. I asked her if she was going out w3ith anyone then, and she said no, and neither was I, and for the next 6 months we made up for lost time.

Unfortunately I took a job overseas, and she landed a job in a Research Center that she had been dreaming of since she had started High school. So we parted friends and lovers, only regretting that neither one of us had - had the courage to make the first move in high school.

So I say to you if I had to do it all over again, I would gladly risk a few hours of embarrasment against years of regret. Life is a risk - take the chance on Love. If not for love - what better reason? Good luck

I'm pulling for you.

Answer 4

Sorry to declare this yet, he isnt that kinda guy that merits a particular or good female such as you. Hes completely finding for bitches. Cuz whos different than bitches that hug a boy and without a reason? i think of u could pass on. yet on an identical time, while he hugs(if he did) only tell him what you experience precisely! And approximately that hes a playboy, u could substitute him if he incredibly enjoyed you :).. so go away HIM OR WAIT ;)

Answer 5

well fist of all lots of ppl of scard of rejection i mean i know i am but i just decided hey you only get one life so you might as well go for it so i just started flirtin with the guy i like & it seems to be working really good but if it doesnt work out ill be ok just let go stop worrying what other ppl are gonna think & just do what you want!!! GOOD LUCK! :)

Answer 6

Well, the best thing is to ask him. You cant do it anyother way, and also having a friend ask him please put that out of the question. Most boys hate that, and most boys whnt girls to make the first move. Make sure you are ready though. I wasnt. -_-

Answer 7

i think the best way to let him know that you like him is write him a note. that way nobody will know and he can write you one back to let you know what he thinks about you. hope everything works out for the good. :)

Answer 8

flirting is a good sign the look at u and look away wen u look is a good sign of things

Answer 9

flirt with him twirl your hair, talk to him maybe he'll get the hint and ask you out if he's interested. best of luck!!!!

Answer 10

the best and easiest way is to talk to him --- if he likes you it will be very obvious and as well he will pick up that you are interested in him