I'm addicted to "pleasing myself" with the right hand and I need help quiting (jacking off), I am serious and advise will be apprecated
2006-12-17 14:35:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
imagine your mom and grandma standing there watching you.
2006-12-17 14:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
"your young and full of c.um, enjoy it :) :) :)" in response to a guy trying to get help with an addiction...
kinda heartless don't you think? Dont' let anyone make fun of the standard you set for yourself - whether from the conservatives or the liberals. You are the only one at the end who has to be accountable for what you do in life.
The "natural" argument is poor one in moral arguments, because the feelings for revenge, greed, and murder are natural too, but that doesn't make it ok when you talk about right and wrong. I could go on with the philosophy - but you need to know that when you have control over your desires, fears, impulses - you'll a better man for it. Rational thinking and action is what separates man from beast. I hope that God will find you and help you regain control in life.
2006-12-17 23:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kshaw5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jacking off is completely normal, completely healthy, completely FUN! No side effects at all! Short and long term mental and physical benefits in fact! What's not to like? Unless you are ignoring other things in your life (homework or social activities with others for instance), ENJOY! One to three times a day is normal for teens. I've been jacking off for over 50 years (really) and I ain't blind or crazy yet! One of the joys of life in my humble opinion!
2006-12-20 10:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by doctor feelgood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's certainly nothing wrong with chokin the ole chicken. Don't think your weird, or think there's anything wrong with you. Don't trust anyone that says they don't masturbate, cause they are liars. If you think your a little obsessed or about to wear the skin off of it, try to limit yourself to say two or three times a day or even nine or ten times a day. Whatever it takes to make you feel okay with it.
2006-12-17 22:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by jwplaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DO YOU WANT TO QUIT? THERE'S NOTHING WRONG TO SLAPPING SKINS WITH YOURSELF, AT LEAST IT'S NOT A DRUG ADDICTION. MASTURBATION IS HEALTHY FOR YOU!! IF YOU REALLY DO WANT TO QUIT, YOU NEED TO START HAVING SOME SELF CONTROL. GO PLAY A VIDEO GAME OR SOMETHING. NO STOP JACKING OFF!
2006-12-17 22:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Crazed Chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say get a new hobby, video games work for me (I'm still young), and just try to occupy your mind. Maybe a good book or some sports. And for the love of God don't be a stereotypical non-christian American, and get a girl to do it for you. Be smart and save yourself for marriage. Its hard to do what your trying to do but, contrary to popular belief, it can be done.
God Bless and I hope you get through it.
2006-12-17 22:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Will Bleed For Kicks 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Engage yourself in a creative hobby, I strongly recommend you take up model railroading. Miniature trains are a delightful hobby, model railroading is fun.
2006-12-17 22:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something more meaningful to do..
learning a new sport, hobby or whatever that interest u other, than those that give u an erection..
slowy u will get over it..
always remember : mind over matter
2006-12-17 22:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by a1jacky1990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try to engauge in something else or get a girl friend
2006-12-17 22:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lyssa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get addicted to something else.
2006-12-17 22:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by Maus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, maybe you could get a girl and have sex. Although it doesn't solve this problem completley it helps.
My boyfriend and i have sex a lot, but he still likes to have phone sex and jackoff. IDK.....you're addicted.
2006-12-21 19:31:47 · answer #11 · answered by Fresca Jesca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋