I AM FREAKING OUT!!!! OH my GOsh!?

Question

I am scared for school tomorrow. On Friday afternoon, while with my cousin and his friend on the sidewalk, and this group of kids, from my middle school starting talkin sh** to us and then I said "

If u f****** touch my cousin I will punch you!"
and he said
"Then I'll slap you!" He then said "If you touch me, this girl will kick your butt!!!" (pointing to his girl friend) and she looked tough.

so what do i do if they confront me again tomorrow? My dad said dont make confrontation and contact, ignore and if that doesnt work say "I WILL CALL THE POLICE IF U DONT LEAVE ME ALONE"

Answer 1

If you can't aviode them then maybe you should take ur dad's advice.

Answer 2

It sounds like you escalated things by threatening violence. You should always try to talk things down, not up. Don't let your mouth get the rest of your body in trouble. That being said:
-You should find some bigger or older kids to hang with for a little while. Lets just say Monday will be a good day to make some new friends. Get them to walk home with you. Don't tell them about the scuffle you almost got into. Most people, even big tough looking people will try to avoid a bad situation. Don't give them the opportunity. Don't be afraid to use your femininity to your advantage when you're making your new friends.
-If you know who these other kids are, and who they hang with, you could look for a mutual friend to smooth things out.
-If you for whatever reason can't do the things suggested above, put a heavy object, like a rock about the size of a soft ball in your book bag. Don’t carry much of anything else in your bag. If all of you do this, it will work better. Then when you feel threatened, grab your bag with both hands about 6 or so inches down from the rock. Use it like you would a pillow in a pillow fight. Try to hit them in the stomach or the thigh region. AVOID CONTACT TO THE HEAD!! You could kill them if you’re not careful. Don’t warn them, don’t threaten them, just hit them, and only if you have to. Good luck!

Answer 3

Unfortunately your dad is right the less confrontation you make the better but that doesn't mean they won't find you. If they come at you tomorrow just be plain with them tell them you don't want to fight them you never intended to you just don't like to see your cousin get picked on. Let them know you don't have no problem with them your just really defensive when It comes to your friends and family and It seems like they would understand they have people to back them up

Answer 4

Your father has good advice for you. Next time, walk away from or ignore those that talk sh**to you. It is likely that nothing will come of that trouble past what happened of Friday. We tend to build things up in our heads worse than they really are. They probably won't even remember or care. (And you sounded pretty tough too, so it is likey that they may just be giving the appearance of being tough)

Answer 5

your dad is right don't make eye contact and try to avoid them as best as possible. It would be best if they do try to start something that you tell them you will call the police that way they will be scared and they won't harm you. I wouldn't fight them though. I know in some situations fighting back is good because you will be sticking up for yourself but if you do that will only get you suspended from school and in trouble with your parents and you don't want that to show up on your permenant record.

Answer 6

that sounds like a good plan. Have your cell phone ready...but try to just ignore them. If any of them touch you...I would file a report with the school and police.

Answer 7

ok I know I'm gonna get some disagreement on this but in my day if you threatened to call the cops you got beat down for being a rat, and then no one wanted to hang with you. If you can just avoid them, and don't talk sh*t if you can't back it up.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

yeah i think you should listen to your dad right now. but dont go straight to the police. thats goin a lil to far right now. if youre still being bothered go to an administrator first then if it gets worse...police!! thats about all i can think of right now. hope it helps some how. maybe you learned something out of this though. Good luck!! be carefullll!!
:)

Answer 10

OMG is right. Avoid them. If they confront you, just walk off. They cant beat you in school if that helps. If it doesnt then i say have a very sting,a dn brave friend be near you at all times. GL!

Answer 11

Carry a whistle to get attention and carry pepper spray. As long as the pepper spray doesnt violate any rules.
And if they do bother you and you dont want to use either then do say:

I AM CALLING THE POLICE ON YOU NOW IF YOU DONT STOP HARRASSING ME, {{{{{{ NOW }}}}}}}

And dont hesitate. You _always have to follow through on any ultimatum_
Good luck.