my girlfriend cheated, but never had sex, she made out with one of my ex-friends last tuesday, but she was in a car accident the same night. she has been in the hospital ever since, and i have been seeing her everyday. she hasn't lied about cheating, just has been leaving out details, i live in a small town, nothing can stay secret for to long. it's just that she feels really bad for doing it, and i still care A LOT about her, i know, im in a pickle
2006-12-17 14:26:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm . . . I don't think you should bother with her anymore. That's just me. I bet she feels SO bad about doing it. Yeah, right! It's sad that she got in an accident and all . . . I just don't think she deserves another chance. How do you know that was the first time they were together? That will be the first time she will ADMIT to it, of course. She can't deny it. But she can deny having met the dude before. I think it's time for you to start fresh. That will teach her a lesson for the next guy who comes along. Good luck with the next one!
2006-12-17 14:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-03 17:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are confused. I think you are angry and hurt about her cheating and concerned and feeling guilty of it because she had the accident. They are not related. I would think carefully about being there for her as a boyfriend now, but maybe your concern for her as a friend is more appropriate. You don't need to date her anymore if you don't want to. If you wish to visit her during her recuperation as a friend I would say go for it.
Think this over carefully and decide for yourself how you feel.
2006-12-17 14:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by hopflower 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow. at first i was like, "You should dump her!" but the with the car accident, i'm thinking maybe she has learned her lesson? I think she needs to wake up and know the guy that REALLY cares about her... you! So yeah it depends, some ppl can change, i'd probably would!
2006-12-17 14:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It was just a kiss (or a makeout session). It's a betrayal but it's not cheating "cheating." If she says she's really sorry for doing this as her why she did it? If you still care A LOT about her give her one more chance but if she cheats again let her go.
2006-12-17 14:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by copper_eos 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Leave her. Don't be there for people who hurt you.
Check for answers saying to forgive. They usually have cheated. It's amazing how many people cheat(at least the people on Answers).
2006-12-17 14:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by Nep 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give her another chance if you really care for her..everyone makes mistakes and is tempted at times... At least she came out and told u and u didnt have to find out through the guy friend...give her time to get it off of her chest and work things through...I hope I helped with your problem...good luck and try to understand where she is coming from...
2006-12-17 14:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by happy2BAlive!! 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think if she has been honest with you forgive her. everything will work out if you do this. it would of been bad if she lied about it. it is good that you have been with her everyday at the hospital. good for you.
2006-12-17 14:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by lovell041206couple 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well she did cheat and thats really F'ed up so i think you should just be friends with her
2006-12-17 14:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I say talk it out and if that don't work then leave her
2006-12-17 14:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by morgan_loves_polina 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋