This guy asked me to a dance. I'm 17, he's 16, we're in the same grade and school. But, I'm not sure if he wants to get romantically involved too, as in bf and gf. We talk some, and e-mail a lot. And, I e-d him that he could back out if he wanted and he said that's not an option. Then, I asked him why me and not some other pretty girl who goes to our school...I'm average looking, and he came up with a paragraph of reasons. Do u think he wants more that just to go to a dance? Should I ask him if he wants more, or just wait and see? Am I exaggerating a simple situation?
I want to be with him.
And not in a physical way. Teenagers doing that=eew!
2006-12-17 14:10:02 · 7 answers · asked by Iamnottellingyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like this boy has fallen in love for the first time. maybe, maybe not. i think you know that girls are more mature at that age then boys. boys at that age dont know what they want. well actually they do. they want sex. so you should ask and see what his answer is or tell him what youre looking for. he can either like the fact that you told him so he knows what to expect or he can leave. and if he does he obviously wasnt ready. and thats okay. you want someone who is and youll find him dont worry.
if any of this sounded a lil offensive, im sorry i did not intend for that. i just hope i helped you out in anyway. but if you find someone with better advice then, gurl, go for it. im just givin you my view.kk.
gooooood luck chica!!!
2006-12-17 14:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by stacims 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he must think a lot of you. When I was in high school a boy asked me to go to the Prom with him. We hadn't been on any dates or anything. Heck... we didn't even talk on the phone. I knew him because we were partners in Drivers Ed. We never had any classes together besides that either. And here it was 1 1/2 years later and he was asking me to the Prom. I said yes and assumed it was just as friends. (and we really weren't even friends) Anyway, during Prom day I realized he thought of our going together as a REAL date. He brought me a rose and seemed awkwardly nervous. I wasn't prepared for a "date" and broke his big heart. I still feel horribly guilty to this day. My point is that your guy is showing you much more interest then my guy did and I don't think there is any question that he really likes you. Go, have fun. You'll be able to tell if he thinks of it as a "date" or just the two of you going as friends. If you'd like to ease your mind you could ask him in a flirting manner if he is taking you out on a date. Say it in a way that leaves him open to answer either way without him thinking you'll get your feelings hurt. Or... you could just wait and see what happens. Good luck and God bless! I love young, nervous relationships. Such good feelings go along with the worrying. Again.... I hope you have a wonderful time.
2006-12-17 14:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It turns out to me that he's simply now not that into you as harsh as it is going to sound. What I feel is preserving him round now's attachment, now not real fondness. After all, you may have been in combination for over 2 years. You would wish to occasion however I do not feel he'll immediately get thinking about you. It's well that he expressed those emotions now and now not in couple of years. Despite the very very long time of dating, was once it particularly significant or did you simply type of hang out? People might as a rule misread the significant dating for an extended one. You is not going to additionally trouble with all this "Who writes first" nonsense. It's simply infantile. State to him firmly that you just wish to noticeably speak this via and solve this topic so either one of you'll be able to transfer on.
2016-09-03 15:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He asked you to the dance so obviously he is interested in you.
So, stop emailing him and asking "why me and not some pretty girl."
I know you are excited, but questioning him too much will only make you come across as needy or annoying or both.
I know you want to ask him all these questions, because you want to hear him say certain things back to you.
You need to take a deep breath and relax, enjoy the dance and see where it goes from there.
Good Luck.
2006-12-17 14:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're making assumptions.
He's trying to give you some message, but even you're not sure what the message is.
So be nice, smile when you see him, and wait to see what he's trying to do and whether he wants to ask you out and take steps further.
Don't assume too much, and if you need to know, ask him. If he's a good friend, ask.
GOD bless.
2006-12-17 14:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask its easier then waiting
2006-12-17 14:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well be honest and open with what you want with him. he can't read your mind
2006-12-17 14:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mara D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋