She just moved from to Tacoma,WA from Peoria, AZ.
Now living w/ her mom and her moms CHURCH of SCIENTOLOGY Husband...He is an author/ "whatever"??? RICH$$$ and my daughters mom is not involved with ANY OF HER FAMILY, including me...
She has a child w/ a friend of mine, and made up lies about him to get a PROTECTION ORDER to keep him away!!!
What do I do?
I miss you Ashley!
Love Dad.
2006-12-17 14:07:15 · 5 answers · asked by gemseeker 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She has been in Phx. Living with Grt. Grandma for past 5 yrs.
I was not perfect, used some MOTHER NATURE, u know down by Mexico. Grt. Grandma got Custody or temp. cust. after " the mom" basically abondened her daughter, not to mention her family and I.
So since grt. grndma new I was occasionally smokin some herbals, I heve had little or no contact w/ my daughter.
Now livin within 25 mi. and I see no contact anytime soon, as her mom is !@##$%^.
2006-12-17 14:11:20 · update #1
oh yeah for the record...no drugs, no alcohol, no more...
well ciggies are killing me!
2006-12-17 14:13:27 · update #2
If u are the father why dont u get the court involved how old is she are u paying any support? if u are u have right to see her. If not go to court with her to file joint custody.
2006-12-17 14:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by Todd B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to see your child no matter what. We all have done things we shouldn't but that is the great thing about life, we can keep going forward. I would try not to be angry and try to focus on the end goal, to be with your daughter. You will definitely have to seek legal advise, which you want to do anyways. A lawyer will tell you exactly what you should do and what your chances are and how to go about it. Your daughter needs you and I hope you are able to see her soon. Prove to the mother and whoever that you are a good father.You shouldn't have to, but you may need to, to make it smoother. You may not like the mother but do what you have to do for your daughter. Fake it if you have to . Good luck and don't lose hope.
2006-12-17 22:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You see your attorney and get visitation and tell him exactly what happened with the other child and have safety measures put into effect now that stop you from having the same fate. I am sure your child needs you as much as you need them.
2006-12-17 22:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grandma has custody.
Don't wory about your exwife, talk directly to grandma.
Be up front and be a man.
Don't be afraid of rejection.
Communication is the key.
Just talk to Grandma.
2006-12-17 22:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have visitatation rights? If you do then enforce them, if you don't them get them right now. Sometimes you can get them to not have to live so far away.
2006-12-17 22:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by 51ain'tbad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋