2006-12-17 13:44:35 · 24 answers · asked by full-time mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Cmon nobody over here can tell you that. its only you who has to judge his loyalty . if its just a boyz-night-out then ignore it but if you see signs then talk to him bout it very clearly.
2006-12-20 05:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by whatever 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, if you feel bad that he is coming home late. Talk to him , that you don't like that way. Tell him how much you miss him.
Tell him to come home early and spend time with you and at weekends, Tell him to call friends to home and enjoy lunch and dinner with your family. By this way you won;t miss him.
But about sincere, You ask him directly and tell him to be frank with you or catch him when he cheats you. Coming late to home with his friends doesn;t mean that he cheats you. May be he wants to enjoy with his friends for sometime.
2006-12-19 19:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wonder? If this is bothering you then communicate this to him. Ask him to meet you half way and come home at a more reasonable hour.
I honestly think that a man with a wife and child at home should be respectful of their feelings. I also feel that most people are (as Chris Rock says) only as faithful as their options. A married man should eliminate his options and concentrate on his life and future.
I'm not saying he should never go out... I just think it shouldn't be a frequent habit.
2006-12-17 22:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who can answer that question. If he treats you with respect and is honest, what does it hurt for him to go out with some guys once in a while.
All to often, we women are too quick to draw conclusions and convince ourselves that there is something going on. My boyfriend enjoys hanging out with the "boys." This is a need that I can't fill and I realize that. My desire to be the everything for him just drives me to control him, which is never good in any relationship. I have learned, with maturity, to let go a bit and he has never given me reason not to trust him.
Communication is another key ingredient. Tell him calmly why it bothers you and he may be able to give you some kind of reassurance that you seek. Don't make it a personal attack or that will only serve to anger him.
Good luck!!
2006-12-17 21:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Shoe Lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men see a night out with the guys and no girlfriends when they are older, like a teenage boy see's a night out with his mates and no parents.. they just like to have male bonding sessions without having to act tame around the chicks... you'll know if he is sincere or not.. just look at how his mates act, are they sincere to thier girls?? maybe show an interest in his nights out, ask him where the boys went, did anything funny happen etc.. try not to sound like you are being nosey, just like your interested.. you should be able to pick up on what he tells you whether he is sincere or not.. but honestly you probably have nothing to worry about.. I mean would you like it if you planned a girls night out and one of the girls boyfriend rocked up??
2006-12-17 21:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by channille 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boys jsut want 2 have fun, start going out with ur friends and coming home late, let him worry about u for a change.
2006-12-17 21:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a man stays out late for many reasons:
1. to avoid helping wife for house-hold chores/work
2. to avoid nagging children/wife/parents
3. to drink/roam/party without boundaries
4. to work more and earn more.
5. to socialize and get more contacts, and become more influential
6. to discuss those topics with his friends, in which (he thinks) his wife can/will not talk much
7. to have time with women which he finds more attractive.
8. to make-up for the freedom lost in his younth-days (when he was restricted by his parents)
9. he may think it is boring to be a husband or father. and may want some other form of excitement.
10. he may not have sense of responsibility, that someone at home needs emotional support too.
11. he may think that he has been let free by his family, hence may not realize that someone is waiting at home.
12. it is possible that, he feels that he is not earning/doing enough for the family, and hence stays out with friends (to whom he is not answerable) rather than face the family (to whom he is answerable), to avoid confrontations.
......I cant think of more reasons now
2006-12-18 01:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by nick_name_less_than32characters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hus is coming late only sometimes,i think(from your question).If you are sincere to him,just catch him with your sincerity.Look into his eyes (if you are really sincere to him and want him to be sincere to you,you eyes will be wet,SURE)and just ask him.He should understand everything from your eyes..your love,sincerity,fear of losing him....Don't ask him,"Are you sincere to me?" Just say "I know you are sincere to me"Just believe your man,lady..It is the base for a strong family life.A man cannot cheat his girl,who is utterly loving and sincere to him...
2006-12-18 04:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by raziya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur husband coming late not means he is not sincere u have to chk very well to him menas ask some ? when he comes late .dont ask y comes late , jus task to eat some thing , or wher they r till this time and they enjoy or not / and ask to frd also , . in out of this u get real ans of urs
2006-12-18 01:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by sanjay c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is sincere to you. coming late 'sometimes' with your friends is no big deal. check out for more cues if you are in doubt.
2006-12-18 02:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by fleur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just enjoying his life. He only sometimes come late. Rest he stays wid u. So don't worry.
N enjoy LIFE!
2006-12-18 04:14:50 · answer #11 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋