I mean to be great in bed, then u must never say no & always ready to at least try it once ?
2006-12-17 13:42:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
anything but railing and anal.
2006-12-17 13:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ever gave you that advice wasn't doing you any favors. They only circumstance where sex should be THAT uncondition is if you are a prostitute.
Sex is a mutual sharing between two people. You should never do anything you don't like. And if you are with a partner that expects you to, you are with the wrong person.
Now, don't mistake me. I'm not saying that having a healthy curiousity about sex it bad. In fact, it's damn good. But, it should be with stuff that you like with a person you like.
The biggest turnon is when your partner is really turned on by something. And that works vice versa. How sexy will you be if you're doing something you really don't like - don't you think that will show?
The longer you've been doing it, the more you learn what it is that you like, love and hate. Very few people like it "all". But hopefully, you'll find you like more than you dislike. Just don't be forced into anything that falls into the later category.
2006-12-17 14:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by lilrubberducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally a guy, or lady can tell you if you are great in bed by the way that you kISS. This is very true. How many people say that you are good in bed? That is up to the guy to say wheather or not you are. If he can hang in there for hours, and you also, I would say that you, and especially him are great in bed together. As Joan Collins, the actress once said that the only guy see has been with that could last the entire was Warren Beatry. She said about five times, in about that many hours. He could not get enough of Joan, neither could see get enough of Warren.
2006-12-17 13:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by virginiamayoaunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only having sex because the guy is nagging you, then you will rush and try to get it over with. I don't think that is good sex. Good sex is when both partners are willing and ready. Say no if you don't feel like it. It doesn't make you a bad lay.
2006-12-17 13:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be great in bed is to love the person your having sex with. Once you get a lot of experience with that one person your sexual knowledge will increase and both partners will experience a better level of sexual satisfaction. Read information on kama sutra, tantric sex and massage to become aware of better ways to increase your sexual pleasure. It's learning, not just going to bed for a guys pleasure, considered being good in bed, that's being easy. Sex is not unconditional, it has to be of mutual consent and having love involved. Not just getting laid easy by a guy.
2006-12-17 13:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by iceblue_purple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex should be somthing u and the person u are with both want to do..it's not right to just sleep around with ppl but some ppl do, if ya dont wanna ya dont have to basically, just because somone says your good in bed dont mean ya gotta give it up every time they want it
2006-12-17 13:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never say no to that kind of thing this will always make a boys day no matter what.
2006-12-17 13:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is dont be a slut wait till your married so you dont get pregnant even if you are wearing protection...
2006-12-17 13:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you don't look like your picture because if you do I would need the lights to be out.
2006-12-17 13:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just the fact that you have to ask, shows that you know that can't be true.
2006-12-17 13:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it should be unconditional and fun. Why not try new things?
2006-12-17 14:46:53 · answer #11 · answered by so 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋